Sex with a strap on.

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by acuradude, Jul 30, 2011.

  1. acuradude

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    I don't know why, but I kind of want your opinion as of lately I have been wondering what it would be like to have sex with a chick, but instead of using my avg size cock, to fuck her with a strap-on with a bigger cock to have that kind of experience, that I know I will never have. Would you ever have sex with a guy that would use one for your benefit and his?
     
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    Don't know. Wouldn't do it with a stranger, that's for sure. If my LTR (cumming up on 11 years now!!!!!!!!!) wanted to try it, I'd say sure.

    But to jump into a strap situation with a stranger... well.... no
     
  3. dolfette

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    just the thought of it makes me cringe.
     
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    Sounds like a SPH fetish to me.
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    Strap on? With a guy, no.

    Wanting the experience of fucking me with a bigger cock speaks of a man who is very insecure about his size and how that relates to his performance that, were I in a relationship with him, I'd want to help him be happy about what he had instead of grunting and moaning on the end of a fake cock and possibly making him feel worse.

    If I weren't in a relationship with him I don't quite know how I'd respond to a request like that. I'd want to decline but I don't know whether it'd change my mind about having sex with him at all.

    A lot of people post good experiences about penis extenders, but I kind of feel the same about those.

    I guess mainly I think that if a man wanted to "use one for your benefit and his" I wouldn't think of the 'my benefit' part - because I wouldn't need it, or want it - so it would only be for his benefit and I don't think that would necessarily benefit him in the long run.
     
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    I'd be willing to try it if he really wanted me to, but I really couldn't see it being my kind of thing.
     
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    Silly boy. The strapon is for her to use on you.
     
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    everyone is into something different. If its something that would make you happy and the girl was ok with it, do it. You only live once... might as well give it a try.
     
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    The strap on doesn't feel the same as a real cock. There is just just no comparison to a throbbing, hot real cock inside of me. I would much rather have an average real cock than a large piece of plastic. Yeah we use toys and they are fun, but I will always want my husband more than any of the toys.

    However, I do like to wear the strap on and reverse the role every once and a while.
     
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    The day that a guy suggests using a strap-on on me is the day he gets kicked out of my bedroom. No guy has ever suggested this to me so my answer is a firm NO.
     
  11. dolfette

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    if he was impotent or small, i'd prefer hands or hand held.
     
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    Toys are for when he's not around.
     
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    I agree with previous posters stating that it signals insecurity with ones own endowment. It would only exacerbate the anxiety. I think, just my opinion, that the person who wanted such a thing perhaps take a look at why? What benefit does it perform? Why is it necessary for sexual enjoyment? And for whom is it pleasurable? I think you may find that you are only making yourself more insecure about something that is very easy to become that way about. (Sorry if that was confusing) It would better serve one such as that to seek help or someone who could encourage and boost that ones self esteem. Unless ofcourse that is what they are happy with in life both in and out of the bedroom. I personally don't agree with sph, but that is just my preference and should not be meant as a slight on those that do.
     
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    I don't see what the big deal is. It's just a toy. If he's truly happy with what he's got, and just wants to pull out something novel from time to time, I can be on board. If he's having inner angst about his cock. . . No.
     
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    I don't think it would hurt to try it just once. It does seem a bit... odd... but what the hell, a lot of kinks that turn out to be fun seem weird at the first mention.

    I must say though: dick vs. toy = dick wins (size needn't apply) :smileysex5:
     
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    yep yep
     
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    lol, I knew this would get turned into a pegging thread eventually! :adam4:
     
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    My ex-wife and I tried one a few times, and that was her response, almost verbatim. It was a fun thing to do once in a while, but definitely not something she wanted full time.
     
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    This is an interesting bunch of responses.

    How about this one ladies: What if your husband is a fast cummer, but otherwise great. Maybe even sizeable.

    What if he said he wanted to fuck you with a strapon so he could fuck you for a very long time? Would you go for it?
     
  20. dolfette

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    i see nothing wrong with a quickie man.
     
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