Sex with a tight girlfriend- any tips?

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gets ya a session of wrasslin', bruisin', furniture bustin', mark raisin', leaves ya pantin' in a heap of tangled sweaty flesh sex.
 

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oh, you are and ya aussie tough girl are so cruising for it!
*comes in low and hard, sweeping Ms. Dragon off her feet and up against the wall*
grroowwwwrrllll
ya got no place to go now :wink:



*Looks up with a purr and a growl and the curl of the lip*

Prrrr.....I have you exactly where I want you!
 

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I actually have the same "problem" right now. The last two times we have fucked I haven't even cum because she gets so sore so quickly. Like at around 5 mins into intercourse she has to "tap" out. But man are those 5 minutes glorious.

My only advice would be not to go as deep. You know, if your thick at the base don't go balls deep. You acknowledged that it takes a while for you to penetrate her fully, so just seems to make sense to not go all the way. I'd try my own advice on my partner, but she seems to want me to go balls deep even if it results in soreness so go figure.
 

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I'm almost 9" and 3" across.y wife is small and tight!! I have never had a problem!!! Just have lots of foreplay and eat pussy!! She takes it nicely!!!
 

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i have been having the same problom with my gf. she is a virgin and i can hardly get the tip in before she tells me to stop. I just have to go down on her A LOT before I can even think about penetrating. The more you do it the easier you think it will get, but sometimes i guess thats not the case.
psst she's not a virgin anymore
 

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Thanks for all the advice guys, I'll definitely consider it all. Anyone else with any other tips?

Well, just one. So I had this exact same issue with a woman I was with years ago. She had what I believed to be Vaginismus - and it took me a while to fully penetrate her also. Even when we engaged in lots and lots of foreplay and, like you said earlier, she was dripping wet - it was still really hard to penetrate her. So, like many here have said, I got my face down there (after already being down there) and ate some more. I made sure she had an orgasm before penetrating her, thinking this would help. But I remember reading somewhere that this might have been counter intuitive as orgasm causes muscle contractions and can cause her to remain "tight" or even tighter after orgasm, thus making penetration really difficult or more difficult.

I don't remember where I read it, but it went on to say give her lots of foreplay but without orgasm. Tease her, bring her close to orgasm and then move on to something else but don't stop with foreplay. Like if you're eating her, when she's about to cum, stop eating her and kiss, lick her inner thighs or something. Keep doing things like this until she's practically begging you to enter her. Now, some women will tell you (and I'll let the women respond to this) that this will absolutely piss them off and NOT get them more horny. You'll just have to figure out your woman's response and play off that.

When she's really ripe, wet, and vocalizing she's ready, then give it shot. Don't be surprised if it doesn't work the first couple of times. Keep at it - along with the other tips found in this thread. I never got a chance to try this because we had stopped seeing each long before I read this but it was worth mentioning. Give it a shot.

Simba
 

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Thanks for that Simba. That's how we normally go about things- foreplay for as long as we can before she basically jumps on top of me. She doesn't orgasm particulary often (although we're working on that and it's getting better), so that doesn't apply to us as much. But we will try what you've suggested.
 

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Thanks for that Simba. That's how we normally go about things- foreplay for as long as we can before she basically jumps on top of me. She doesn't orgasm particulary often (although we're working on that and it's getting better), so that doesn't apply to us as much. But we will try what you've suggested.

Well, worth mentioning anyway. Sorry I couldn't help more.

Simba
 

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Don't worry Simba, you have helped. Like I said I'm grateful for any advice people want to give, no matter how big all small.

Not sure if its been said yet (too lazy this morning to check) but different positions also help. For me, I can get in deeper going either doggystyle or cowgirl/reverse cowgirl.

I honestly can't do missionary position unless she's on a bed or table or something my height and I'm standing; its just awkward for me being so tall and her (usually) being short.