Sex with a tight girlfriend- any tips?

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I never really have a problem of the girl being to tight or being in pain as we are having sex.
For example just last night I was up for it but the girl said straight up "I can't tonight I'm still in pain and I could not handle it".
No ego trip or anything.....its past that and become annoying, but I would rather not do it at all than start and have to stop.
I haven't found an answer apart from let her recover??
Saying that she has got better so over time I hope your GF does as well.
 
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Just get her wet until those folds feel slippery. I've found entering doggy nice and slow at first helps to get her to open up. If she tries to ride ride ASAP out of the gate or I go missionary it is often a rough ride for a minute or two. Also, I tend to go with the head and maybe a quarter of the length until she's used to it. Hitting hard and bottoming out from behind is bad. Girls don't like that.

Lube helps a shit ton if she's not totally soaked or you're still having problems. I've also tried to have them ride me normal and reach my hands around her back to spread her open which helps a little, but pushing in slowly from behind usually works.

After a few minutes her box is formed or used to my size and we can just fuck like normal.
 

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:biggrin1: Now if can figure out how MrsR, you and I could plug into each other we'd have the start of a hive mind and we can solve all the world's problems.

...or we can all just end up fucking. :biggrin1:

Don't give me ideas!!! :tongue::tongue:

I'll now be fantasising about three-way hive mind fucking all bloody night!
 

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Hey dolfette
Started reading your threat and its was all sounding very familiar but then got down to the parts about sex being difficult etc and thats where it lost me.
Might be the reason the guy who started this is girlfriend is struggling but not the girl I see. She is tight but can take it but cant take sex say twice a day for a few days. after that she is sore as hell.
Me and her are just used to it now so it doesn't really get in the way of things.
 

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Dolfette- I don't think it's vagismus, she can control her vaginal muscles during penetration, so naturally she relaxes them to try to make it easier for me to penetrate. But she can also tense them around me if she wants to, she does that sometimes. I've never experienced any forms of vaginal spasms either, so I don't think that's the problem. So maybe it's just a physical mismatch.
 

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Yes I agree with MsMoxie I have had to stretch out a few of my past girlfriends until they could take me. I used several different dildos until they were stretched out enough after a while It was no problem for them to take all of me. Then you will find she will become addicted to your big dick. I always feel sorry for the next guy that dates them if they are avg. I wander how long it takes for them to go back to normal size. Well good luck and take your time.
 

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they're muscles, not elastic bands.

it's less like ruining elastic and more like... a contortionist. she can build up stretch in her muscles and tendons, allowing her to stretch further than she could. assuming she exercises then she'll still be able to stand up straight even though she can bend in half.