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a big dick can be challenging to handle for females and males who are already active. so it must be 10 times as harder for a virgin pussy or ass. do any of you try

1) to avoid virgins because of the likeliness that sex will not occur or it will take a long time (possible over multiple encounters) for both to enjoy the sex

conversely

2) do any of you take any particular enjoyment in deflowering virgins - for those who do, why exactly do you take pleasure in deflowering them with your big cock (eg. seeming them struggle to take it, how tight they are etc.)

or

3)are you generally indifferent to virgins (just another pussy or ass)
 
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I've had terrible and acceptable experiences with virgins physically.

Emotionally I'm afraid of them getting attached and most likely would avoid it unless I thought I could reciprocate emotionally.
 

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It is a somewhat different experience but overall I don't mind either way. Although I have very limited experience in this matter.
 

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I was with a guy that I found out was a virgin way after the first time we got together. Apparently I was the first guy he even kissed! I believe that bc that first kiss was the longest, most passionate kiss I have ever gotten before or since. It was like the kiss was the culmination of years of built up lust and desires. I also remember him saying he loved me the first time we were together lol. I just kind of ignored it at the time. For a while in the seven months we were hooking up he did get very clingy, but eventually we worked it out.
 

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i don't have a big cock and I bottom anyways but Virgins get too attached whether they bottom or top... just my experience.
 

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Although it's been quite a while since I've been in bed with a virgin, it's never been a great experience from my end.

My first time with a virgin was my first time as well. It wasn't just lust, but I loved the girl deeply. It was a big step for both of us to move to that level of intimacy. We went slow, and was a wonderfully sensual evening, but after we finally managed penetration (it wasn't easy, despite lots of foreplay and lubricant), we had to stop after about ten minutes as it was hurting her too much. Naively I didn't realize that bumping up against her cervix wasn't how you pleasure a girl. We waited a week and it was better. Eventually we had an amazing sex life for almost two years, before breaking up. But still that first time was only memorable for not the best of reasons.

The next virgin I slept with was almost overanxious to have sex with me. She had this idea that she ought to remain a virgin until she went off to college--we wound up fucking (or trying to) on her first night on campus. We had met that summer. She had just finished her period so we decided not to use the condoms which I had bought. She knew how big I was so she thought she ought to go on top, so she could control things more. She was having trouble with that, so we changed to missionary position. She was ridiculously wet but it was still hard getting lodged inside of her. I finally did and managed to work maybe 4-5 inches inside when she just statred pleading for me to stop, which I did. She was holding back her tears. I'm not sure if they were from the emotions, the pain, or (most likely) a bit of both. We just held each other through the night. When I woke, her hand was stroking my hard cock. She already had baby oil slathered on it. I thought she was going to give me a handjob, as that's what she always used the baby oil for, but she straddled me and pushed her tight pussy over my cockhead again. This time she managed to work a lot of me inside and started fucking me--eventually taking me in up to my balls. She came twice. That morning was amazing, but the night before was pretty emotional for both of us.

About two years later I wound up with another virgin, my friend's little sister. She had just graduated high school and I was now going into my senior year in college. It was one of those things where I knew her as my friend's little sister all of her life, and suddenly one summer that little girl had become a very attractive young woman. We started hanging out togerther, which led to dating, and very quickly fooling around. The girl almost had a fixation on sucking my cock any time and anywhere she could manage. It wasn't too long before we were alone in my bedroom together one night and she asked me to fuck her. We were naked and I more than wanted to, but I said "no," and that she should wait for somebody she really loved for the first time. I really liked the girl, but I didn't love her, and she didn't love me; we just were having a fun summer together before we went off to different colleges in a few weeks. I know she felt more than a little rejected from it, despite my doing virtually everything outside of intercourse with her that night, but I really liked the girl and did want her first time to be with a special guy, not just a boy who you were experiencing summer lust with.

After that, I just avoided getting into compromising situations with virgins and have never looked back.
 
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Had experience with two. Neither was good. First, no penetration just pain for both. Second, blood, not very romantic. Glad there were no more. Experience for me is best. I want spontaneity not required preparation, constant pain, and lack of pleasure for both parties.

No pleasure in being the first, just being the next.
 
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i "tend to avoid them" because there will probably be size issues, and emotional attachment issues, and lack of experience issues... but if a really cool, fun, sexy lady wants me and she is a virgin, i'm going to give it the ol' college try, haha.
 

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i "tend to avoid them" because there will probably be size issues, and emotional attachment issues, and lack of experience issues... but if a really cool, fun, sexy lady wants me and she is a virgin, i'm going to give it the ol' college try, haha.

surprised to hear people speaking about the attachment issues. don't have much experience in this area but is this 'perception' (as i will call it) derived from actual experience with virgins or is it more based on hearsay and word of mouth? i guess for me it's hard to imagine that all or most get attached but then as i say i have very limited experience and knowledge in this area
 

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Generally bad experiences. Aside from the emotional ones. Had a few good ones though. Most memorable was my freshman year in college. She and I worked together at a part-time campus job. We became friends. One day we went to the movies together. Came back to my dorm room and she flat out asked me to deflower her. No romance or love talk. It was like a business deal. No crying/pain/emotions from her. She went about it like a porn star. She basically rode me. Would get off, wipe the blood and stuff off of herself. Get back on. In fact if it wasn't for the blood and her telling me, I would never have known. I don't think she came, she enjoyed it, but never saw her like orgasm. She thanked me afterwards. We stayed friends for a while. She never wanted a relationship or anything. In fact it was kinda cold.
 

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Virgins are noob fuckers. I have bad experience with a virgin guy (22 YO) and just tried two times to penetrate my pussy. Ejaculation after 1.5 minutes. Very bad!
 

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Virgins are noob fuckers. I have bad experience with a virgin guy (22 YO) and just tried two times to penetrate my pussy. Ejaculation after 1.5 minutes. Very bad!

He fared better than I did.

My first time I "missed" her vagina and slid between her butt cheeks, and that was enough to blow my load.

I lasted 1.5 seconds :(
 
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While it has been a long time since I had sex with a virgin, I did have the opportunity recently to go to bed with a 19 year old. She sought it out and, initially it felt like a pretty good score for an old cat like me. Then the reality. Her body? Wow. 19 is way younger, fitter and tighter that I remember. Her pussy? Again, damn. She felt fantastic. She didn't struggle or anything, just wonderfully elastic and youthful. But, oh my goodness, she did not know how to fuck at all. I worked with her as best as I could did what is likely a one timer, but really, this girl has not come into her own yet when it comes to skill. Give her a few years, maybe.

Back to your original question, I would not really want to be with a virgin again. If the thrill is to watch them struggle, that is really not fun for me. Sex has to be fun for me and my partner to be worth it. I have a hard time imagining it with a virgin, just like me and my inexperienced partner went through a couple weeks ago.
 

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I've never been with a virgin, and it's not exactly something I'm looking to try. I've had girls who are fairly experienced struggle with me, so I can't imagine a virgin would be all that enjoyable. Certainly wouldn't turn her away, though.
 

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I have some experience in this matter as I know I have slept with at least two virgins. It is a different experience having sex with a virgin but overall I enjoy being able to take my time and to help her enjoy her first intimate sexual experience. You can't rush. I helped them to relax and ensured they were ready. I remembered that a woman's body usually takes about eight minutes to produce sufficient lubrication to allow painless penetration after she begins to become sexually excited so it was never going to be a quickie. If you are having penile-to-vaginal sex, this can be frustrating for partners, as it takes far less time for a male to get an erection.
 

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The only virgin I was with was my high school girlfriend. We worked her up for the size for about 3 months before having sex. Mostly using fingers and seeing how many we can fit inside.
Everything was fine, except when I would go in too deep, it would hurt.