Please help. My bf is a great, extremely reliable top in bed. We have been together for ten years. The problem is he lacks imagination and after ten years it's getting boring. I have posted complaints on here before about how he doesn't let me touch his dick or give him a blow job because he is "ticklish", he's got a great bod and a nice package, but I don't really have access to it, except when we he is on top of me. When I mention that we should maybe expand our horizons, he gets really hurt. He thinks maybe I want to be with other guys, and I always say "No, I want more of you!" Any suggestions how I can gently and slowly expand our horizons?