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Sorry for the novel. Just thinking out loud, here.
So, I've known this girl since a little before last winter. We lived in the same dorm in college. She's a Senior now and I just graduated. We met through her best friend and we both share a lot of mutual friends. We live 2 hours apart and I still visit somewhat regularly because most of my friends are still in school.
I find her very attractive and she is a very sweet girl. There is a lot of mutually respect between us, and I think the attraction is mutual too. We are by no means best friends, but we always dance together at bars and have a lot of fun.
We've kept in touch through text and she told me she likes this boy, but he isn't making any moves on her. They have only made out once and he's spent the night a few times. They've been studying together and hanging out for quite a long time, about as long as I've known her and I think if he was interested in her, there would be more there.
We were talking about him not doing anything, and I told her that I would've made out with her multiple times by now. She wasn't offended, it was through text so I couldn't assess her facial expression. Also, she has said to me that she doesn't have sex with randoms and that I would be proud of her to my face. Gives me an idea that she is somewhat open minded and comfortable with me.
I certainly don't want to get in between them, but I definitely would like to get physical with her as friends. I think it would be a lot of fun, mutual satisfaction.
Anyway, I'm sort of thinking my way through casually bringing up, "Hey, if this guy doesn't make his move, Ithink it would be fun if got naked. y/n?" BASICALLY... I don't think it would be that often, due to distance. More than once for sure.
Here is the kicker, I casually dated one of her friends, whom got back with her ex. We don't hate each other and there are no hard feelings. I wouldn't be doing this to get back at her. I promise. I don't think it would be a deal breaker to be honest.
Would like to hear some guy's opinions of this! But ladies, if you feel compelled to answer, you can pm me or something?
Good idea, bad idea? Questions, comments, snotty remarks?
So, I've known this girl since a little before last winter. We lived in the same dorm in college. She's a Senior now and I just graduated. We met through her best friend and we both share a lot of mutual friends. We live 2 hours apart and I still visit somewhat regularly because most of my friends are still in school.
I find her very attractive and she is a very sweet girl. There is a lot of mutually respect between us, and I think the attraction is mutual too. We are by no means best friends, but we always dance together at bars and have a lot of fun.
We've kept in touch through text and she told me she likes this boy, but he isn't making any moves on her. They have only made out once and he's spent the night a few times. They've been studying together and hanging out for quite a long time, about as long as I've known her and I think if he was interested in her, there would be more there.
We were talking about him not doing anything, and I told her that I would've made out with her multiple times by now. She wasn't offended, it was through text so I couldn't assess her facial expression. Also, she has said to me that she doesn't have sex with randoms and that I would be proud of her to my face. Gives me an idea that she is somewhat open minded and comfortable with me.
I certainly don't want to get in between them, but I definitely would like to get physical with her as friends. I think it would be a lot of fun, mutual satisfaction.
Anyway, I'm sort of thinking my way through casually bringing up, "Hey, if this guy doesn't make his move, Ithink it would be fun if got naked. y/n?" BASICALLY... I don't think it would be that often, due to distance. More than once for sure.
Here is the kicker, I casually dated one of her friends, whom got back with her ex. We don't hate each other and there are no hard feelings. I wouldn't be doing this to get back at her. I promise. I don't think it would be a deal breaker to be honest.
Would like to hear some guy's opinions of this! But ladies, if you feel compelled to answer, you can pm me or something?
Good idea, bad idea? Questions, comments, snotty remarks?
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