I've been seeing this girl for a little while now. We met last summer at a party, went on a couple of dates, it's been a slow build for a while but finally now we're seeing each other regularly and getting intimate. She's quite a bit younger than me (I'm 32, she's 22) but I'm really happy with how everything is going. When it comes to sex we've been having some fun, but I've noticed that our approaches are a bit different. She's a much more gentle lover than I am, I like to "fuck" more so than "make love". But she's admitted that it seems like I'm better at sex than she is, and last night when she went down on me it was evident she hasn't had much experience doing that.
What I'm wondering is if anyone's been in this type of situation where one person has more sexual experience than the other? And how they balanced the scales so that everyone involved was having a great time, without being rude or coming off cocky.
If it helps, these are the main issues:
-In missionary, I find that I can't go as hard as I want, I have to keep it pretty chill for her instead of building up the intensity.
-She didn't quite seem to know what to do with my cock when she went down on me.
-When I ask if she wants to change positions she seems a bit shy. I always reassure her that we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to.
Thanks for reading and I look forward to your replies
What I'm wondering is if anyone's been in this type of situation where one person has more sexual experience than the other? And how they balanced the scales so that everyone involved was having a great time, without being rude or coming off cocky.
If it helps, these are the main issues:
-In missionary, I find that I can't go as hard as I want, I have to keep it pretty chill for her instead of building up the intensity.
-She didn't quite seem to know what to do with my cock when she went down on me.
-When I ask if she wants to change positions she seems a bit shy. I always reassure her that we don't have to do anything she doesn't want to.
Thanks for reading and I look forward to your replies