Blue - do you find that it has affected your relationship in any adverse ways? I was wondering b/c I have been bi-curious for quite a while but have yet to have an experience with another girl. My lifelong best friend stepped up and said she had no problem fooling around with me, but i'm afraid that it might hurt our relationship. We got way back though - I literally can remember her being potty trained (she's a few years younger than me).
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Hey there,
No our relationship is real strong and not adversely affected by reluctance to be fucked by him in any way. But that's our situation and not yours and so I imagine your relationbship could be hurt if you go ahead. I think you should talk things through before deciding whether or not to fool around with your best friend. And by the way my best buddy seduced me last night and I let him fuck me first before I fucked him. The sex and orgasms were fantastic and I feel absolutely great. I just didn't realise what I was missing out on.
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Mike,
I have responsed to this before. I want to add somethings. First, I speak from personal experience. Everyone in my life expected me to get a wife and have kids. But the truth is I had several gay encounters before I got married. I enjoyed straight sex earlier in my life, but I am really turned on by the looks of a great male body. Even in striaght sex I fantisized about guys. Your penis in the gallary is absolutely breathtaking. I don't ever expect to meet you, so this is not in anyway an attempt to to that. But I have both questions and suggestions for you to consider for yourself as well as questions I have for me.I hope you will take the time to answer them as well as other people on the forum. Mike, whether you answer on this forum or not, seriously consider what I am asking you. It could drasticaly change the direction your life will take.
First questions you need to answer for yourself:
1, You said, "The sex and orgasms were fantastic and I feel absolutely great. I just didn't realise what I was missing out on." So gay sex is more satisfying that gay sex. If so, are you really straight or are you conforming to the world's expectations.
2. In other posts, you talk about the closesness you have with your friend going back to kindergarten. Is this really love that you aren't willing to admit too.
3. Is your friend ready to settle down to one relationship with you are does he still want to play the field. The same question belongs to you as well.
4. If you let this friend go, will you regret it later.
Mike, pelase consider these questions. If you really are gay and loved to be fucked in the ass and to fuck him in the ass. are you really gay or not.
Suggestions. Do other things that you wouuld do in a straight relationship. have pasionate kissing. If you can't do that at all, he may just be a fuck buddy. Hlding hands like during a movie. Is that something you would want to do with your firend. Do you enjoy having him lay his head on your shoulder or vise versa. Look at the whole picture.
Now I will tell a little more about myself. I really sit back and this about two of the gay encounters that I had that were serious. One of them I have lost contact with. The other I stiill correspond with. With the second person, we never verbally admitted to the relationship. It was done with no discussion. Yet I enjoyed candle lit dinners with him. I never kissed him though. I still am turned on by beautiful guys and not girls. My marriage is solid, but not romantic at all now. Mutual agreement. Though there is a strong love there, it is not sexual, but once was at least some. At the time, I never thought about "gay marriage" Sometimes I wish I could go back and redo my life. Not that I don't love my family dearly I do. but I also realize what I have missed out on. I think.
Mike, I told this because you need to really throughly examine your beliefs, your desires, and what you really want or the future.
Now all can post to my questions. I have one last question. I have read of two straight guys having anal sex who said the orgasms were greater than any other orgasm that they had ever had. I am talking about the bottoms here.
??????? What is so different and special about the orgasms the bottoms get. I would like to know. Anyone can answer here.
I tried it once and we didn't do it right. At first entry it hurt like hell and he had to pull out. But I most confess that I have these feeling in my ass that are sexual. I just don't understand as much as I would like too.
I don't think I have lied on this forum. I haven't told everything, but I haven't told a falsehood either. Some of you may have drawn different conclusions about me, but I think most of you had it figured out. As for my marriage, I woull probably stay in it, there is a whole lot more to a relationship then sex. Though if something happened to end that marriage, I wouldn't rule out a committed gay relationship.
I feel better laying it out. Needless to say I am still confused about some of it. Helpful comments appreciated.
Freddie