I got a experience story to share of myself with my male neighbour...
It all started few years ago (now 5), when my neighbours came into my life.
He and his girlfriend where this happy couple I got to meet,
Well... happy? So I thought.
I met them at a neigbour-street-party where I helped them out,
after they invited me to participate along with this street-party.
Through the years I've known them, I've build up very intens bond with them.
We shared very good moments and bad moments too, like in every friendship.
But in the end our good friendship prevails, and we can keep counting on each other when needed.
We go sometimes on vacation together, movies, eating out, drinks,
roller coaster parcs, game-events, concerts, bowling, karting, camping, beaches...
As long as it is fun, we mostly do it all together, well if they invite me over to go with them.
I am alone, currently still single and we're really neighbours, living next door to each other.
They like me and I like them, they help me out and I help them out whenever in need.
Though thing is, when we're together on vacation,
his girlfriend wants the guys (me and her bf) to sleep together in a room
and she and her daughter in another room together.
Which never made any sense to me, but hey, who am I?
Know that during those vacations, there had never happened something.
She is a 41 year old woman, sometimes very pretentious and mean, yet she can
be a very sweet, gentle, and friendly woman from time to time when she gets what she wants.
He is a 36y old guy, pretty handsome, smart, normal figure, kinda nerdish sometimes
and pretty flirty toward me as mentioned before.
I'm 38y, chubby bearish, single guy, look younger than I am...
The guy, was always playfully flirting with me in front of his girlfriend.
But she never bothered and knows he just does that to play, or does he?
Anyway, they both know I'm gay and they're all okay with it.
However since I know them, the guy doesn't get a lot of sex from his girlfriend.
He told me she didn't have the need for sex since their daughter was born.
Yet, he does everything for his girlfriend. Works a lot, plays practically her slave.
She just orders him around, and he's the fool who jumps for her.
He always hopes he will get some sex from her as a "reward". But nope!
Al she does is nag, and keep her busy with her phone all day after work.
Yet, few months ago he was seriously more flirting with me.
One day, he was done early with work, he came over to my place and wanted to talk.
So he started to complain about his gf, and daughter, that don't appreciate him,
nor respect him in all he does for both them.
At a certain point, he suddenly confessed to me he had a bisexual side.
I've never known about that before.
So I said I was surprised with that confession, and I appreciated that for telling me.
Yet, I didn't got the clue where he was heading with that conversation...
Suddenly he said, lets have sex, I want to suck you.
I was like first laughing. And told him to stop joking.
He stood up, undressed himself, and stood naked before me.
He was all turned on aswell, a beautiful 6.5 inch uncut cock.
He suddenly went on his knees, pulled my pants out, and started sucking me.
I was actually stunned he could suck cock, that good.
Suddenly I came to my senses and asked him to stop.
I said, you have a girlfriend and a daughter.
He said, fuck her! She doesn't give me sex.
I was like... okay I'm all turned on anyway, so fuck.
So we got it on, very passionately taking time to explore each others bodies.
I was very hot and intimate for sure, till he asked me to fuck him.
Again I was amazed by that unexpected question.
I was like, okay, let me get condoms.
He said, fuck condoms, put it in me now!
So I was doubting first... but well he convinced me, so I went in him bare.
We went on and on... and the more I fucked him the more liked fucking him.
He said he had need for it, so he wanted me to go on and finish inside him.
Which I did... and he came at the same time I came in him.
This is now going on for a few months...
He comes over when he's early from work, before she somes home with daughter.
To talk, relax, chill, relieve and have fun.
His girlfriend still doesn't know anything to this day.
I don't regret the things we're doing, I'm still single currently.
I'm just worried that if she ever finds out... she throws him out.
Which she already mentioned a few times, that if he cheats on her,
and she should find out, it's totally over and he can move out asap.
She's a pretty strong willed woman, she knows what she wants and
can be pretty stubborn, very mean and jealous at some times.
She's pretty racistic aswell, which I totally disgust!
He is none of those things, pretty friendly, good-looking, hard worker,
loving, caring, sweet, good listener and talker.
Very much the things I like in a guy.
I've talked with a few ppl here about this situation.
And they've all told me it's best to stop before it blows up in my face.
Though, I did try to break it off few times.
But everytime again he seduces me into more and more, and again and again.
It's he, who looks me up, and I do enjoy every moment we have sex with eachother.
I'm just being honest, I love it at some times,
and it keeps me from fooling around with other guys.
And if you're wondering if I'm in love with him, than NO is the answer.
This is pure about lust, sexual desires and intimacy. Nothing more.
Also from his side this is the same. We both know what we do.
We're just very close friends, neighbours with benefits.
And... we just hope his gf never finds out for his sake.
Oh yeah, just in case, this guy is a total anti-tech guy.
He can not work with tablets, smartphones, laptops or any kind of computertech.
Which is admirable, for his age, cause we're the 1st generation who grew up with it
and saw it all evolve throughout the decennia's, yet he rejects it all.
So fact is he doesn't use smartphones, messaging each other ain't happening.
That way she can't find out either by checking is messages, since he has no phone.
He just comes over, face to face, since we're actual neighbours.
What you guys think we should do?
It all started few years ago (now 5), when my neighbours came into my life.
He and his girlfriend where this happy couple I got to meet,
Well... happy? So I thought.
I met them at a neigbour-street-party where I helped them out,
after they invited me to participate along with this street-party.
Through the years I've known them, I've build up very intens bond with them.
We shared very good moments and bad moments too, like in every friendship.
But in the end our good friendship prevails, and we can keep counting on each other when needed.
We go sometimes on vacation together, movies, eating out, drinks,
roller coaster parcs, game-events, concerts, bowling, karting, camping, beaches...
As long as it is fun, we mostly do it all together, well if they invite me over to go with them.
I am alone, currently still single and we're really neighbours, living next door to each other.
They like me and I like them, they help me out and I help them out whenever in need.
Though thing is, when we're together on vacation,
his girlfriend wants the guys (me and her bf) to sleep together in a room
and she and her daughter in another room together.
Which never made any sense to me, but hey, who am I?
Know that during those vacations, there had never happened something.
She is a 41 year old woman, sometimes very pretentious and mean, yet she can
be a very sweet, gentle, and friendly woman from time to time when she gets what she wants.
He is a 36y old guy, pretty handsome, smart, normal figure, kinda nerdish sometimes
and pretty flirty toward me as mentioned before.
I'm 38y, chubby bearish, single guy, look younger than I am...
The guy, was always playfully flirting with me in front of his girlfriend.
But she never bothered and knows he just does that to play, or does he?
Anyway, they both know I'm gay and they're all okay with it.
However since I know them, the guy doesn't get a lot of sex from his girlfriend.
He told me she didn't have the need for sex since their daughter was born.
Yet, he does everything for his girlfriend. Works a lot, plays practically her slave.
She just orders him around, and he's the fool who jumps for her.
He always hopes he will get some sex from her as a "reward". But nope!
Al she does is nag, and keep her busy with her phone all day after work.
Yet, few months ago he was seriously more flirting with me.
One day, he was done early with work, he came over to my place and wanted to talk.
So he started to complain about his gf, and daughter, that don't appreciate him,
nor respect him in all he does for both them.
At a certain point, he suddenly confessed to me he had a bisexual side.
I've never known about that before.
So I said I was surprised with that confession, and I appreciated that for telling me.
Yet, I didn't got the clue where he was heading with that conversation...
Suddenly he said, lets have sex, I want to suck you.
I was like first laughing. And told him to stop joking.
He stood up, undressed himself, and stood naked before me.
He was all turned on aswell, a beautiful 6.5 inch uncut cock.
He suddenly went on his knees, pulled my pants out, and started sucking me.
I was actually stunned he could suck cock, that good.
Suddenly I came to my senses and asked him to stop.
I said, you have a girlfriend and a daughter.
He said, fuck her! She doesn't give me sex.
I was like... okay I'm all turned on anyway, so fuck.
So we got it on, very passionately taking time to explore each others bodies.
I was very hot and intimate for sure, till he asked me to fuck him.
Again I was amazed by that unexpected question.
I was like, okay, let me get condoms.
He said, fuck condoms, put it in me now!
So I was doubting first... but well he convinced me, so I went in him bare.
We went on and on... and the more I fucked him the more liked fucking him.
He said he had need for it, so he wanted me to go on and finish inside him.
Which I did... and he came at the same time I came in him.
This is now going on for a few months...
He comes over when he's early from work, before she somes home with daughter.
To talk, relax, chill, relieve and have fun.
His girlfriend still doesn't know anything to this day.
I don't regret the things we're doing, I'm still single currently.
I'm just worried that if she ever finds out... she throws him out.
Which she already mentioned a few times, that if he cheats on her,
and she should find out, it's totally over and he can move out asap.
She's a pretty strong willed woman, she knows what she wants and
can be pretty stubborn, very mean and jealous at some times.
She's pretty racistic aswell, which I totally disgust!
He is none of those things, pretty friendly, good-looking, hard worker,
loving, caring, sweet, good listener and talker.
Very much the things I like in a guy.
I've talked with a few ppl here about this situation.
And they've all told me it's best to stop before it blows up in my face.
Though, I did try to break it off few times.
But everytime again he seduces me into more and more, and again and again.
It's he, who looks me up, and I do enjoy every moment we have sex with eachother.
I'm just being honest, I love it at some times,
and it keeps me from fooling around with other guys.
And if you're wondering if I'm in love with him, than NO is the answer.
This is pure about lust, sexual desires and intimacy. Nothing more.
Also from his side this is the same. We both know what we do.
We're just very close friends, neighbours with benefits.
And... we just hope his gf never finds out for his sake.
Oh yeah, just in case, this guy is a total anti-tech guy.
He can not work with tablets, smartphones, laptops or any kind of computertech.
Which is admirable, for his age, cause we're the 1st generation who grew up with it
and saw it all evolve throughout the decennia's, yet he rejects it all.
So fact is he doesn't use smartphones, messaging each other ain't happening.
That way she can't find out either by checking is messages, since he has no phone.
He just comes over, face to face, since we're actual neighbours.
What you guys think we should do?
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