OK, so I have been in a LTR for over 5 years. My boyfriend and I have never been with anyone else, in regards to anal sex. He is was my first, and only in all sexual areas. He has made out and fooled around with another guy. Well I have taken the "bottom" position and he loves his "top" position. My boyfriend does not like being "topped", I haven't done it in a few years. Also, I have never been able to "finish" in him. He was "topped" me for years, and almost always finishes in me. I have brought it up to him several times, and he says, "Well I don't like it" or "If you keep giving it up, then we can talk about you "topping me"" I know that he doesn't like it, but I really, REALLY want to top. I like my role, but I am totally wanting to "top"...I mean my boyfriend is hot, and has a hot muscle butt. Has anyone ever had a situation like this? I love my bf, and I love having sex with him.....but I don't know what to do about wanting to top him, after all I am a gay man. Receiving anal sex is only part of the "gay" sex.