Sex with my boyfriend (too big)

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  1. Imported

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    MTBGirl: First of all, thanks for the information on these boards. It is a great help.
    I am a twentysomething female who has been in a slowly developing relationship with a guy. We have known each other for over a year now, and one night about a week ago this progressed into a sexual relationship. He ended up being too large for me that night, and we ended up orally satisfying each other. Since then we have had several sessions of this, but we haven't tried vaginal sex again.
    I've been with several men in the past, but none of them were shaped like the man I'm with. He is about 8 inches long, but the head is much larger in relation to the shaft than anyone else I've been with. Even semi-erect it is much bigger than I can fit!
    He is very shy about sexuality in general, so I have to be really careful about the subject, but what techniques have you found to work? Do you women out there eventually get used to the girth with a little work, or will I have to do stretches before each session? I feel a strong commitment to this man and would like to resolve our sexual incompatibilities as well.

    Thanks,
    MTB-G
     
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    wvalady1968: Hello and Welcome to the forum.

    I have a couple of ideas. This has been discussed here several times and many have given excellent suggestions. First, search and read.

    Examples that may help:
    http://www.lpsg.org/cgi-bin/YaBB.cgi?board=sex;action=display;num=1073687435

    http://www.lpsg.org/cgi-bin/YaBB.cgi?board=sex;action=display;num=1052658358

    http://www.lpsg.org/cgi-bin/YaBB.cgi?board=sex;action=display;num=1072911781

    The second is that this won't be accomplished in a few days, or even perhaps weeks. But it probably can be done. Take your time and have fun.

    Allie
    :-*

    P.S.  He may be shy about sex because he's been rebuffed by other girls. Be very patient and kind with him.
     
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    tripod2004: My penis is just under 9'' and 7'' girth. I have always had problems with penetration and oral sex until I met my current partner who, at 5'3'' and very slim has always easily accommodated all of me
    (although no success orally ). so, there is a lot of variation and you may just be unlucky with your partner
     
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