Sex With Rich People Questions

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Jovial, Mar 20, 2008.

  1. Jovial

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    What's the richest (or best salary) person you've ever had sex with? poorest?

    Are richer people better lovers than poorer people in your experience?

    Do you ever fantasize about having sex with someone rich (or someone poor)?
     
  2. Chick&2DicksUK

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    They're just the same - good and bad.

    But they don't make a fuss when we steal the olives out of their fridge (those in jars just don't taste as good).
     
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    Iv'e had sex with very rich men and women.
    They are just as inept as a poor person as far as sex goes
    but they can compensate me nicely if I ask them to!
    They also usually have the means to do things I wouldn't necessarily
    get to do with a poor guy like giving me several hundred dollars to gamble with at the track and pay me for taking the night off of work.
    Perhaps a poor guy could also do this but I've yet to have one do it with any consistency like my old friend.
    Sweet!
    cigarbabe:saevil:
     
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    All fun apart, though. What the OP is saying is a reasonable question based upon the fact that......

    Money is the greatest aphrodisiac.
     
  6. Jovial

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    About fantasizing about it... I think most people think rich men can attract more people, so to choose you instead of all those others would be a turn on and ego boost. Just like being with someone taller, hung or in great shape.

    I'm not sure rich women would evoke as many fantasies.:rolleyes:
     
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    Speaking from experience. As a male guy and equally as cultured or as rough and ready as they come (depending on the company).

    I've always decried the young girls who go to pieces when an otherwise unattractive but rich guy was on the scene, yet on the few occasions I've been in the vicinity of a famous &/or rich lady, my knees have genuinely gone weak.

    I can so see where your question is coming from.

    As said before, money is the greatest aphrodisiac.
     
  8. Principessa

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    CigarBabe, so what's it like having sex on a bed of $100.00 bills or on top of a sable coat? I've always wondered . . . :rolleyes:


     
  9. whatireallywant

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    I seriously doubt that salary has anything to do with sexual skills.

    Also, I didn't usually inquire about the salaries of the guys I've been with. The few I did know how much money they made (usually longer term relationships) ALL made less than I did. Now, most of that was back when I was gainfully employed, but one was when I was making minimum wage! :eek: (I was working 37.5 hours/week for minimum wage, and he was working 15 hours/week for minimum wage). My LTR guy did make more than me when we first got together, then later on I made more than he did (he lost his job) Even after I lost MY job, I made more than he did, because I was eligible for unemployment, and he wasn't.

    All this is frustrating. While I am not a gold-digger by any means, and would really prefer if money was not really a factor, I do want to find someone, if I am going to have a relationship, who has a steady job and a fairly decent income (doesn't have to be rich, my major concern is stability/steadiness - mainly because of my own problems in that area the past 3 years...) If we're just talking about sex, money doesn't matter at all, as long as he can afford to buy condoms! :biggrin1:
     
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    I have slept with some very rich women. First one (I was her hot, young waiter) then she told her friends and one by one I slept with them. It was not at all about the money. It was being in the right place at the right time. And as far as fantastize about someone owing to wealth or lack thereof - that has never played any role in my desire to have sex with someone. It has been my experience that net worth has no impact on a woman's performance in bed one way or the other.
     
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    CFO of a large international company, television personality, among others. I was going to say money didn't matter but I guess it did. The wealthier they were, I made sure they made the first move. I didn't/don't want them to think their money put them in control and allowed them to call the shots.

    Good question...I need to spend more time thinking about this.
     
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    Hmmm...I would think the person making the first move is in control. The other person is being submissive right off the bat.
     
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    One was a VP for REI. This was many years ago. He was fun.

    The other was a self made millionaire. He was fun, too.
     
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    Richest? The wealthiest I knew of was in the multi-millions-he was amazing; yet, not the best.

    Other men who had money were varied. Some good, some not so good, some fantastic, some who apparently didn't know what an erection was.

    Then there were women-Bev was a peculiar widow woman who insisted on threefers, which me an a friend of mine provided willingly. I always hated having to disengage; but, my friend had his rights-once he was done, I'd go back in. (relax people, we used condoms) Bev was not poor nor wealthy-she was (and is) part of the dying breed known as Middle Class. Best vaginal sex I ever experienced.

    The well to do women were varied, some were good, some were as near to lifeless as possible without being a corpse.

    Then the moderate incomed people-some god, some not.

    The poorer-some good, some not.

    The absolute best of any sex, was a man named Mike, he worked part time for a Congressman, had next to nothing in money, and was on the smaller size of average-about 5 inch in length. He did something for me though and I've never reached that level again. Definitely he was the best as far as the men I've been with and he drifted to the poor side of the charts.


    I've also been with people whose income I know nothing about-I've done the group thing a few times-it's very anonymous as to income and names. Those, and one nighters are generally just mutual sexual release and enjoyment. Good; but, not something I would call mind numbing.
     
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    If money matters to the person than perhaps mentally attraction will be a little stronger thus giving the rich an edge over the poor in prowess ( if both do bad, the poor one did a little worse anyway because he lacks criterion ) but otherwise I see no reason to believe otherwise.

    I don't fantasize about money. In reality I wish I cared more for it; I earn it, but have nothing to spend it on so it stockpiles; I don't need any from anyone else.
     
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    ...but it also depends on how far both want to go. The wealthy person may make the first move but not-as-wealthy person may say "hold on -- we need to do this instead" or "if you want to do that you have to do whatever first."

    So...during my own self-therapy I realize that I can be a bit intimidated if I feel other people have more than I do so I try to leverage my own power in the only way I can -- be bossy and hard-to-get. Thank you Jovial.

    Criminy, now I know why I was a psych major.
     
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    Money makes small penis worries go away....:wink:
     
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    Rich: I escorted in college so I wad with a lot of very wealthy guys; including a several highly placed corporate executives.

    Poor: Could be any number of others; never found it a stimulating part of foreplay to say "hey, how poor are you?" :p
     
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    I've dated 3 girls in my life who had millions of dollars in their bank accounts and one who made $70,000 a year out of college. I'm a dumbass, because I'm not dating any of them anymore. I don't even try for this shit, it just happens. Apparently I attract the upper crust.
     
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    How were they in bed...did they like bigger or smaller penis?
     
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