Not sex with Exwhyzee, but THE EX. I broke up with my ex a couple of years ago when he moved away to complete his residency in another city. No negative feelings were involved...circumstances just led us apart. We have caught up with each other maybe once or twice a year since then for coffee or ice cream when we visiting respective hometowns. The other day, I got a text message from him: "Plans tonight? Am having dinner in town with rents but nothing after. Coffee? I can suck your weiner..." Hummina? Do my what? I was shocked...and I guess my response showed that. He wrote back that he was just kidding...but the horse was out of the barn. I'm not convinced that he was kidding. I did meet with him, and we talked for a long time about life and friends. I did not follow up on his offer...though I kinda wish I did...but it just seemed like it had the potential to lay groundwork for expectations that I wasn't prepared to deal with...though I really would like to have had a blowjob (he was very very good at it). Did I mention he was very good? There is something nice and safe about the familiarity of an ex when the relationship ended without a fight or hard feelings. In a way your heart moves on to other things...but, maybe a repeat performance once in a while is not such a bad thing...especially when the sex life is slow/nonexistent. Has anyone else had ex-sex experiences? If so, how did they turn out? Did it complicate things...or were you able to keep it at face-value? Did the relationship change afterward? Were there repeat performances? Am I a complete idiot for not taking him up on his offer?