All, This is the topic I was hoping to avoid, but I might need some advise. I'm a married man (about 7 yrs now) and have what I believe to be a good size endowment (7" x 5"). My wife and I were both virgins when we married and our sex life has always been only so-so. Over the last year it's just gotten worse and we have only done it twice in eight months. She just isn't interested in sex. I've suggested that we get help with a sex therapist and she is considering it. I think I use my tool pretty well and have always been a considerate lover (I always get her off having sex - unless she fakes well). I am just concerned that things won't get better and I am getting tired of taking things in my own hands. Any suggestions?