Sex without attraction?

[ballparkdogg]

How many men have sex without attraction? I am not physically attracted to men. But I like sex with men. I quit overanalyzing it when I was younger and just enjoyed it.

 

[nhguy78]

I am asexual and am not really sexually attracted to people. I do have other attractions, though. I do want sex, though. I want to be in situations where i am wanted and made to feel pleasure.

 

[halcyondays]

I have. Almost always they initiate/pursue/express interest in me.

 

[goldscorpguy]

I guess when I was younger it was mostly about attraction. Now, in later life, it's more of a carnal desire to fuck. To find someone physically attractive is an added bonus.

 

[deleted817718]

My sex life as a younger man was mostly homosexual and a lot (but not all) of the men that had sex with me I wasn’t sexually attracted to, particularly some of the much older men. Things like looks and age weren’t really a factor at one point, it was more compulsive behaviour

 

[chrisrobin]

When you are young and a twink you want guys that mirror your image and so become choosy about your sex partners. There comes a time in your life when you change and there is a need for gratification regardless, the need for sex because it's on offer and not because you want a long-term relationship with the guy. So often I gave in to lust sucking off guys in cars, getting screwed in toilets, fucking in back seats just to satisfy a need, an itch that needed scratching. That anonymity for no strings instant satisfaction.
So yes, many times I've had sex with guys I wasn't attracted to.

 

[BulgeGuySD]

In order for me to have sex with someone, I have to be attracted to, if there is no attraction it doesn’t matter how big the cock is, or how gorgeous the ass, or body, or face, or how horny I am, if there is no attraction on both parts there is no sex period, I had told someone ones..”I have to like you in order to fuck you” and for the must part I let them take the lead. they have to iníciate it, and can be as simple as eye contact and a smile or smirk … I can pretty much manage my self to let them know there interest, so they can take the fist step.. other wise I won’t start…and it won’t happened.
I met my gorgeous husband in the must unlikely place to meet someone, Im
not gorgeous or even very good looking guy I think my self as a reg joe with a big bulge between my legs. I guess the butt is not hideous either, nor my face. But I met the must beautiful man in SoBe… now my husband . being there many times and lots of times I’m almost invisible, till I met him, innyhe pass it was like I wasn’t there at all, almost nobody even see me. but is ok I like the beach, and I love warm water, something I don’t have here in Southern Cali the water here is very cold..

 

[deleted16577781]

In order for me to have sex with someone, I have to be attracted to, if there is no attraction it doesn’t matter how big the cock is, or how gorgeous the ass, or body, or face, or how horny I am, if there is no attraction on both parts there is no sex period, I had told someone ones..”I have to like you in order to fuck you” and for the must part I let them take the lead. they have to iníciate it, and can be as simple as eye contact and a smile or smirk … I can pretty much manage my self to let them know there interest, so they can take the fist step.. other wise I won’t start…and it won’t happened.
I met my gorgeous husband in the must unlikely place to meet someone, Im
not gorgeous or even very good looking guy I think my self as a reg joe with a big bulge between my legs. I guess the butt is not hideous either, nor my face. But I met the must beautiful man in SoBe… now my husband . being there many times and lots of times I’m almost invisible, till I met him, innyhe pass it was like I wasn’t there at all, almost nobody even see me. but is ok I like the beach, and I love warm water, something I don’t have here in Southern Cali the water here is very cold..

thanks for your honesty very interesting story about being 'invisible' and only noticed for one thing!!

 

[deleted1074483]

for me there has to be attraction, usually physical but can be emotional/intelligence too, the former requires no thought or work, i find them attractive i can fuck them and thats fine for random shags/meets, for the growers its never going to be a meet n fuck, they have to grow on me a bit first but if through that getting to know them i grow an attraction towards them then no issues i can fuck them too.

 

[ayushiest]

a bit boring and kind of mechanical. Like no passion or excitement.

 

[ANick.225]

I'm an exhibitionist and a lot of the sex I have is not centered around physical attraction. I have standards but I'm turned on by cum, cock, and public risk so I don't need much attraction. For relationships though, I do need attraction.

 

[sweetglue]

face --> dick --> rest of the body

If smn has handsome face and very playful personality then he will be fine with average body.

Also what I noticed the way that people carry themselves changes a lot.
For example cute, bigger guys don't turn me on but the rough guys the same size, "daddy persona" are hot AF.

 

[HungBiGuy8]

When I was younger and just starting with guys I was super picky. Good body, handsome... all about looks. As I started playing more and more and as I've aged my standards have adjusted. Sure I'd still love the ripped younger smooth guys I used to service but aren't too many of those that are into 50 somethings. I still have limits, no beer bellies and if a guys way too hairy it's a no go but other than that I'm open to most guys. I'm not dating anyone, I just want their cock in my mouth and or ass.