Sexiest man alive (or dead or to be born) is in LPSG, NOT Hollywood Part 1 of 2 Who in the hell votes for those sexiest men contests every year mostly women presumably but what are their criteria since it is mostly movie stars that get selected. George Clooney, Sean Connery and Tom Selleck have all admitted never having been regarded as very sexy until their star rose to great heights on silver screen. So obviously a guy who is reasonably good looking, funny, rather devilish at least on film, adroit in the bed and getting gals there, and cocky in a self effacing way is certainly sexy even if those characteristics are invented for a celluloid persona. But without the tabloids what chance does a really sexy guy have to get the sobriquet of sexiest man alive. I have met just such a guy and it was not at a Hollywood screening it was in chat room of lpsg. I had just given a very tactful put down to an older guy bemoaning his lost sex drive and by extension his sex appeal (I am an older guy also though I try not to act the part). I got a private message from SMA (sexiest man alive) complimenting me on the comment. It was like one of those Big Bang friendship moments that I have had only twice before. One sentence and you know you like this guy, even if he turns out to be a highly literate dolphin. Fortunately the guy is not a dolphin though a few diving tricks he has discussed with me require holding ones breath for more than 20 minutes. We have communicated regularly for two years and gotten to be good friends and from these conversations I have cast my huge vote (not my huge dick though it would vote positively also) for his sexiness. It did not take long for him to feel comfortable in telling me openly and very honestly about his cataclysmically strong sex drive and other captivating carnal features of his makeup that led me without any hesitation to claim him to be the sexiest man alive. A man who is comfortable in his sexuality can tell if another guy is sexy just as well as a woman can though the sexual attraction need not be there. We can look at the major facets of a guy that a woman considers in determining sex appeal of a guy and see how I acting on behalf of the millions of women who do not know this guy might have reached the same conclusion. Those characteristics are: Looks, stature, body, intelligence (and confidence and attitude about sex) sense of humor, cock and balls and sexual performance. I have also estimated what statistical occurrence exists of men with his level of excellence in each area. See what you think. LOOKS He never said he was especially good looking but sent me an office-type photo and he IS, astonishingly good looking, as handsome or more so than any of the 100s of male pics I have seen on lpsg or elsewhere. Very even features, finely chiseled chin, big blue eyes, golden blond hair, a million watt smile, and a boyish demeanor that will keep him handsome throughout his life much like the looks of the ever sexy Paul Newman. There is an innocence but also a rather dangerously wicked look about him that I think would catch the endearing look of any woman who wants a beautiful man between her legs. I would say that puts him in the 1 in 500 category of all men and is certainly a huge component of sexy. STATURE At 6.5 feet the guy is obviously a standout in a crowd of guys and since tall (and good looking also) is equated with intelligence, assertiveness and virility (and actually somewhat truthfully so from genetic standpoint), it is also a very sexy companion to astonishingly handsome. Couple the height, good looks with arrow straight posture and you can never forget the visual image of this guy when you meet him. This feature would probably be in the 1 in 500 category of men also. BODY For a one nighter, women look for a great body, one that would be a pleasure to strip and fondle and one that is lean with taught, well developed rippling muscles and of course a body that conjures up a mouth watering bout of endless orgasms when positioned deep in their bodies he has a splendid body that he continuously keeps in the sexiest possible shape and never has wanted for the attention of hot women to engorge themselves on him. Perfect body for sex He has all the attributes just mentioned and possesses the body of the Greek ideal, though probably slimmer in the waist only the finest cerarra marble would be suitable to memorialize this body in a likeness on the Acropolis. Magnificent ass And he has the ass of a wild stallion, big and rock hard, difficult to grab but oh what a woman wouldnt give to try to sink her nails into it to leverage his incredible tool within her pussy. I would have to rank him at least in the 1 in 1000 category of a man based on his beautiful sexy body. INTELLIGENCE There is no place for modesty here and I must confess that I am an intellectual with very high standards for an intellectual equal as a friend and this guy matches me and surpasses me in many respects. Being multilingual and in possession of literary skills that I find phenomenal, he is certainly no slouch in the intelligence department. We can discuss one of two dozen or so topics along with sex topic talk or without. I dont think any woman could fault him for not finding a subject to pique her curiosity or keep her entranced long enough to allow him to work his sexual magic on her as her defenses subside. Confidence and attitude about sex This guy does not lack for confidence in any aspect of his life least of all sex. I doubt that he ever has had a limp moment at the appropriate moment nor been dumbfounded for a disarming approach to the most gorgeous women that he regularly encounters. Being in the moment The two of us subscribe to the Taoist philosophy (for him his whole life, me more recently) of being totally absorbed in the pleasure of the moment with sex of course being the major moment topic here. It is this philosophy that is essential to success in yoga meditation and mind over body medical treatments and deriving the most for every experience in life. This philosophy is contagious as it dramatically elevates the experience of sex, prolongs orgasms almost indefinitely, increases ability and mindset for multiple orgasms for both partners and is an engrossing characteristic of sex for women wanting a very long and intense sexual experience. Give this guy an A+ for this sideline to his amazing intelligence. In intelligence (including confidence, attitude and philosophical approach to sexual pleasure) I would say he is probably in the 1 in 10,000 category.