Moderators, Admins - I did try to initiate a PM discussion on this but you have ignored me. It has been 36 hours since I contacted you all. That's more than enough time for someone to get back to me.
Members,
Two days ago I had an interaction with another member (who has since disabled his account) in this thread. The poster was aggressive in what I believe to be a sexist manner, I reported him for that. Other members, it seems, also reported his posts in that thread for the same reasons.
A little while, but fairly soon, after my report I received a PM from the Mod team saying the user was getting a heads up for "sexist content and harassment". Indeed the Moderator Actions thread now says:
However, Michaeldi23 (as was) published the PM the Mod team sent to him. It didn't mention sexism or sexist content at all:
(Note: I don't publish PMs sent to me, but this was not sent to me, it was sent to Michaeldi23 (as was) and he published it. I'm merely linking to where it was published and has been allowed to remain public.)
About 36 hours ago I PMed all mods and admins this message:
I have, as yet, received not one single reply.
Mods/admins, what is the reason behind telling me and the membership that this user was advised against being sexist when nothing in the 'head ups' sent to the user mentioned sexist content at all? Were you trying to appease me? Appease the membership (especially those of us who believe (well, know) that sexism is not considered an equal crime to homophobia and racism here)? Did the mod team, the consensus of the team that is, consider the reported posts sexist at all? If so, why not tell the offending member so? If not, why list 'sexist content' as behaviour?
Some loaded questions now: Is the consensus among the mods/admins that female posters on LPSG should expect and tolerate sexism? Is the consensus among the mods/admins that sexism is a less serious form of bigotry that racism and/or homophobia?
What do you, the members of LPSG, think about all of this? Is the consensus among members that the female posters should suck it up, shut the fuck up and get our tits out? Should we expect bigotry and tolerate it? Should the mod team, perhaps, be less afraid of telling sexists they are being sexist and show some consistency in what they SAY they are doing and what they are ACTUALLY doing? If sexism is condoned at LPSG would it just be better to be honest about that?
Members,
Two days ago I had an interaction with another member (who has since disabled his account) in this thread. The poster was aggressive in what I believe to be a sexist manner, I reported him for that. Other members, it seems, also reported his posts in that thread for the same reasons.
A little while, but fairly soon, after my report I received a PM from the Mod team saying the user was getting a heads up for "sexist content and harassment". Indeed the Moderator Actions thread now says:
Michaeldi23 - heads up, sexist content and harassment
However, Michaeldi23 (as was) published the PM the Mod team sent to him. It didn't mention sexism or sexist content at all:
So I've been reported got this message today -
Dear Michaelki23,
You have been reported multiple times today for your contributions in this thread and mostly for this post; Are big pussy flaps better then small
While on the surface this is not actionable it certainly is pushing the envelope to what accepted behavior is at LPSG. We are contacting you and asking that you read the sites rules as we feel you are just shy of threatening and harassing another member which is against the site rules.
We allow a fairly free reign of self expression here we do ask that you conduct yourself in an adult professional manner on the board, chat in in private and visitor messages.
If you have any questions or issues please don't hesitate to contact myself or any of the other moderators or administrators of the site.
On behalf of the moderators,
ny
(Note: I don't publish PMs sent to me, but this was not sent to me, it was sent to Michaeldi23 (as was) and he published it. I'm merely linking to where it was published and has been allowed to remain public.)
About 36 hours ago I PMed all mods and admins this message:
ManlyBanisters said:According to what Michaeldi23 published as his warning PM from the Mods (see below) there was no mention of sexism.
Who is lying here? Either he is lying to the membership and was indeed warned for sexism OR [name of the mod who PMed me], on behalf of the mods, is lying to me about Michaeldi23 being warned for 'sexist content'.
I have included all mods and admins on this PM and I'm very interested in all your answers.
I have, as yet, received not one single reply.
Mods/admins, what is the reason behind telling me and the membership that this user was advised against being sexist when nothing in the 'head ups' sent to the user mentioned sexist content at all? Were you trying to appease me? Appease the membership (especially those of us who believe (well, know) that sexism is not considered an equal crime to homophobia and racism here)? Did the mod team, the consensus of the team that is, consider the reported posts sexist at all? If so, why not tell the offending member so? If not, why list 'sexist content' as behaviour?
Some loaded questions now: Is the consensus among the mods/admins that female posters on LPSG should expect and tolerate sexism? Is the consensus among the mods/admins that sexism is a less serious form of bigotry that racism and/or homophobia?
What do you, the members of LPSG, think about all of this? Is the consensus among members that the female posters should suck it up, shut the fuck up and get our tits out? Should we expect bigotry and tolerate it? Should the mod team, perhaps, be less afraid of telling sexists they are being sexist and show some consistency in what they SAY they are doing and what they are ACTUALLY doing? If sexism is condoned at LPSG would it just be better to be honest about that?