Sexting - Yay or Nay?

[irox19]

i'm into it, but I quit. i am not sending pictures anymore.

dick pictures do absolutely nothing for me.

 

[rob_]

Yayyy!
I find it so delicious receiving a naughty text when there shouldn't be anything naughty happening at all.
Like at a family dinner.
And they're none the wiser.

 

[petite]

I forget where I read it, but it was a thread basically about how girls dislike getting dick pix from guys. From what I recall, the pix just don't do anything for them. They just all send them around to each other and lol at them. But then again, some girls may actually like a cock shot.

Edit: I think I heard it on the radio, actually.

Most women don't like dick pics. I do now, but I don't think I would have at the OP's age.

Sexting? What are you, 14?

I'm in my mid-thirties and I sext TheBF. I love it. Nothing better than getting him all hot and horny and eager to come home to ravish me. :biggrin1:

Sometimes I inspire him to come home for "lunch".

I think you may be underestimating the fun of sexting. Of course, I'm talking about sexting words, not photos.

lol ^

The only time I've ever found this appropriate in the least was when me and my girl (of 4+ months at the time) were separated by 90 miles for a semester, and she said, amongst other things, that she missed my big ol' dick.

Wait, there was one more time when a guy friend that moved away really wanted to see what I was packing so I figured there was no harm in fulfilling his fantasy.

That's a good use for sexting.

 

[louielouie82]

I'm all about some sexting! I remember when I first met a very good friend of mine several years back at a mutual best friend's house, and he and I just totally hit it off (as buddies). We are both just very sexual, open people. And we also live to laugh. So during dinner the first night I met him, I text'd him a dirty pic. We've been best friends ever since! :tongue:

 

[Incocknito]

This girl is horny as fuck. In a way its nice but in another way its annoying. Also she keeps saying I have a massive cock and I keep telling her its just big...

Hope she isn't disappointed when I unzip my pants in front of her. This is the only problem I see with sexting. I think sometimes things can look bigger than they are

 

[ConstantComment]

WEll, everybody is different. I would think sending photos of body parts a bit risky. From my point of view, just that I don't think of myself as too terribly photogenic and I would rather that my guy keep a nice memory of me than be reminded by a less than sysmpathetic photo. Ditto for him, the guy I'm dating. Let's see, he's got a hairy behind and a hairy something else, but I find the sum total very sexy.

I don't even like the idea of sexting so much. As racy as I get is "I miss holding you". But I guess that's the difference that 30 years can make.

 

[helgaleena]

As long as you are not doing it in high school and neither one of you is a minor, I suppose it's not illegal. Go for it in that case.

 

[Incocknito]

Well tonight she asked me how big it was. I said 7.5 inches and she said something like 'oh...but is it thick?'

This is why I don't like sending pics...either it looks bigger than it is or she can't visualise 7.5"/has been lied to

Next time I'll try and use my willpower to resist sexting. It creates a lot of false...sexpectations.

Plus it would be nice to get a genuine "reaction" to the physical unveiling.

 

[scottredleter]

I'm all for dirty talk any time, but really? Texting? I'd rather just put the phone down and jack off on it.

 

[petite]

Well tonight she asked me how big it was. I said 7.5 inches and she said something like 'oh...but is it thick?'

This is why I don't like sending pics...either it looks bigger than it is or she can't visualise 7.5"/has been lied to

Next time I'll try and use my willpower to resist sexting. It creates a lot of false...sexpectations.

Plus it would be nice to get a genuine "reaction" to the physical unveiling.

LOL! I think it would. Sext sexy words. Tell her what you want to do to her, or how sexy she is, but leave out the photos!

Oh, don't ever tell a woman your size in numbers! Just don't. Most women seem to think that an inch is 10.5 centimeters, or they measure cocks from the bottom instead of the top, so when you say 7.5" inches, she's thinking of a much smaller cock! Women are the worst at that sort of thing. It's better just to let her see it herself.

I'm all for dirty talk any time, but really? Texting? I'd rather just put the phone down and jack off on it.

It's hard to dirty talk verbally on the phone with someone who is working in an office and you don't know if he's in a meeting when you call him or who else might be nearby and he can't respond to you, even worse, you might be annoying him, whereas if you text, then he'll see it when he has a moment to check his messages and it's a little secret thrill, and you can carry on the dirty talk all day long, just like some of the flirting that goes on here in the forums. I don't see why it's okay to have titillating talk on the forum that goes on for days but not okay in private over the phone for a few hours.

 

[closetbi]

If I do end up telling a girl my size, I just say 6....hundred inches.

 

[Fardunda]

I must confess, I am a huge fan of sexting.

Not so much photos, but I find few things more exhilerating than being at work, discussing strategy, writing emails, mundane work stuff etc, then suddenly in comes a wonderfully descriptive text message from your partner which makes sitting at your desk increasingly uncomfotable. You just can't wait to get home and get straight into it.

I have sexted with a couple of partners over the years and both parties loved it.

I am generally quite a shy, reserved, polite guy and I love being a complete deviate via text. And I have fond that the girls love discovering this side of me. And of course I love discovering this side of shy and reserved girls.

I might go send a text now...

 

[bigrider]

ive sexted a lil in my time haha it can be good and bad. the good i have been told i was nine inches, the bad when chicks dont send pics back just another message

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

Sexting - A great way to keep the spark alive in a relationship!! My H and I do this occasionally. But we don't send pix. It's really hot to get a sexy text when you least expect it. I know most of you are talking about sexting with ppl you don't know well, but try it with your significant other. Add a spark to the flame

 

[gen1125]

I think sexting is a lot of fun. I haven't done it much while in a relationship but with some potential people on the side yes, instigated by them though. I have only swapped pictures once but I prefer just text. Something about seeing people use their creativity to arouse me just gets me going. That is also the same mind set that (I think) attracts me to the fictitious stories section of the site. Oh how I love erotic literature.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

Sexting with complete, spelled out words, can be a thing of beauty. I'd much rather stimulate you from the inside than from the surface.

(See Empathizer's writing for a good example)

It's the shortcuts with 2 instead of "to", idk, instead of "I don't know", and so on that pollutes the written word.

:redface::redface::redface:

Thank you very much, RawDog (still blushing)...

I find that writing about sex arouses me quite a bit. Often to the point of orgasm. Often more times than once a post. It's intimate. The process of any truly honest creative writing, with any kind of real imagery, is a tenuous and plastic (as in bendy-stretchy, not as in Barbie's Dream Corvette) form of very real self-hypnosis.

Once again you two took the words out of my mouth. Couldn't have said it better:biggrin1: (in other news, this is my shortest post...ever!)

 

[B_New End]

Yayyy!
I find it so delicious receiving a naughty text when there shouldn't be anything naughty happening at all.
Like at a family dinner.
And they're none the wiser.

Hell yeah. sexting is so fucking hot. I remember a fwb was sexting with me while I was in a lab at college. My pants were soaked with excitement on my way home. Walked funny on the wya home trying to hide my wood, but fucked the shit out of her that night!

Saved the sexts too. Still have them on my phone.

No pics required. I wouldn't send a dick pic unless requested. And the request I think is more for the naughtiness of it than the actual visual stimulation she might get.

 

[Zeuhl34]

I've never done it, but I'd definitely give it a try. That being said, I'm incapable of sending or receiving pictures on my current phone (not that I would want to, necessarily).

 

[AlteredEgo]

I'm not into "sexting", and my husband hates to have an erection at work. It pisses him right off.

I remember when I was single, a guy I kind of liked started sending pictures of his cock to my cell phone. I had encouraged pictures of his cute face, and sexy chest, and flat stomach, and thick waist, but the penis pictures surprised me. He had a hot cock, I must admit, but our rapport was just never quite the same after that. This is possibly because there was no way in hell I was going to let him have explicit photos of me. Even without my face, I have birthmarks, and whatnot. I hadn't even decided if I wanted to fuck him. I was leaning toward yes (such a hot body, such a creative mind) but something happened to our connection after he sent me dick pics. It just wasn't the same.

 

[ericbythebay]

It depends on the relationship. For straight people, as a pre-sex hookup tool, it's probably a bit much.

As a gay-sex trick tool, why else would I pay an extra $10/month for unlimited MMS.