Sexual Activities Within Religious Communities

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I wonder if anybody ever had sexual activities with any member of a religious community such as a priest, rabbi, sermonizer or ministrant or other servant or clerical person etc. (this question is meant to be open to all religions!)

Btw i wouldn't accuse anybody as we are all sexual beings and denying basic human desires is a very difficult request sometimes hehe. Share your story!
 

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It was mutual alright, was the priest that married my wife and I. We used to fuck in his office in the church
Beg you pardon? Can you please tell us a little bit more about that super horny story pleeeeeeease :)
 
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I thought this an odd question to ask. After all most people think of under age kids and pedophilia with members of the Clergy ,unfortunately.
That's just a bad stereotype that you have, i am not talking about illegal things obviously - as you can see from the answers above it is totally grown up stuff PLUS i am talking about all religions, thanks for noticing.
 
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That's just a bad stereotype that you have, i am not talking about illegal things obviously - as you can see from the answers above it is totally grown up stuff PLUS i am talking about all religions, thanks for noticing.
Posters 3 and 5 don't discuss age but no. 5 stated he had sex with a Sunday school teacher. So you don't have to think long and hard that he wasn't of age . Poster 5 was fucking his priest before he married his wife .Defend your thread all you want . I just think it's something that shouldn't be exploited because of the many men and women that have to live with being abused by your so called stereotype.
 
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That's just a bad stereotype that you have, i am not talking about illegal things obviously - as you can see from the answers above it is totally grown up stuff PLUS i am talking about all religions, thanks for noticing.
Given what the Roman Catholic Church has been going through for the last few years (and Protestant Church) there are likely a lot of individuals who have made sexual connection through some religious function. There is no reason to associate these ventures with illegal under age victims. Nor is there any reason (or research) to suggest that gay men are anymore likely than the general population to have illegal age contacts.

A full reading of Cardinal McCarrick’s outings describes activities with numerous adult men, both in groups and solo. One may not get aroused thinking about sex with Cardinal McCarrick, but apparently there were adult seminarians willing to favor him. It is a good bet that they were also helping others out both in church and on the street.

Vatican Defrocks Former Cardinal McCarrick, Finds Him Guilty Of Sex Abuse

Any social activity that brings people together is likely to result in all kinds of sexual hook-ups between consenting adults. I have Roman Catholic friends who on more than one occasion have had sex with a guy one evening (as a hook-up). Then find that the guy surfaced as a priest offering the sacraments a few weeks later. Neither had ever met the other, nor did they acknowledge the other while in church.

It is what it is. And it would be interesting to know how much of it is going on between adults while under some religious umbrella.
 

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A lot of women had sex with one of the previous rectors of the church where I was baptized and confirmed. That's why he was sent to us, and part of why he left. The other part was the suspicion of misappropriation. There was a rector before him, same thing. Came to us under a cloud of suspicion, definitely had some affairs during his tenure. They were both married, and really that was the only problem. Episcopal priests are allowed to date.
 
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I wonder if anybody ever had sexual activities with any member of a religious community such as a priest, rabbi, sermonizer or ministrant or other servant or clerical person etc. (this question is meant to be open to all religions!)
In the Christian faith, does your question cover the example of the Protestant reformer Martin Luther (a former Catholic Priest), who married the (former) nun Katharina von Bora? From what I can tell, they had an interesting and complex marriage - though it developed as a rather straightforward dating and courtship relationship, without any illicit or inappropriate overtones.

Given what the Roman Catholic Church has been going through for the last few years (and Protestant Church) there are likely a lot of individuals who have made sexual connection through some religious function . . . .
In the U.S., the novel "The Scarlet Letter" has been a staple in High School literature classes for several generations. The story is built around a young woman who conceives a child during an affair with a much older (Protestant) clergyman. The novel was published in the mid 1800's, but the story is set in the mid 1600's. Although it is a work of fiction, some scholars have attempted to connect elements of the story to historical incidents.

My point is that sexual connections between people in religious vocations, and laity, is not a recent invention. Likewise, I suspect it happens between people in religious vocations, and I suspect Christianity isn't the only faith where it happens. It is disgraceful and shameful that some of those connections involve flagrant, or even subtle, abuse but they are not always abusive. Some people seem to have an unexplainable attraction to people in religious vocations. As the character "Hodel" in the musical "Fiddler on the Roof" confesses,
" We have only one Rabbi and he has only one son.
Why shouldn't I want the best? "​

I don't have any first-hand experiences, unless you include my pastor's wife arranging for me to meet her niece, to whom I have been married for almost 45 years. But my wife . . . . had a strong crush on her (married) pastor during her High School and early college years (before we met). They never had sex (she was definitely a virgin on our wedding night) but their relationship and activities were inappropriate for a person in a position of authority, and a subordinate. Early in our dating relationship, when we started getting really serious, we spent a weekend as houseguests of that pastor and his wife, so that he could evaluate me as a potential husband for my wife. That pastor left the ministry rather abruptly, and without much explanation, while my wife was in college and I have often wondered if he had other affairs with women in his congregation.
 
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A lot of women had sex with one of the previous rectors of the church where I was baptized and confirmed. That's why he was sent to us, and part of why he left. The other part was the suspicion of misappropriation. There was a rector before him, same thing. Came to us under a cloud of suspicion, definitely had some affairs during his tenure. They were both married, and really that was the only problem. Episcopal priests are allowed to date.
The standard seems to be rather than deal with the problem, just move them to another parish.
 
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I was a music minister, just married and my wife and I swapped very frequently with a somewhat newly married youth minister & his wife for over a year, weekly or multiple times weekly.

I’ve had sex with fellow ministers at conferences, etc. as well.

I am no longer in the ministry.