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Mkymkus said:
... The problem with "addiction" is that you really have to know some real addicts before you can compare yourself to them. A psychologist who knows what real addiction is can probably give you the best quick answer. ...

This is key. Addiction is a strong word. Use it wisely.
 

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ok. 4 out of 20...
Sorcerer - As an expert on dealing with various addictions, what's the prognosis?
 

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Tsk, I'm very disappointed. I only scored 2 out of 20, clearly I am going to have to work much harder to add this to my list of addictions. :rolleyes:
 

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Sorcerer said:
See, this is what you get when you ask a bunch of sluts if you're a sex addict.
OK let me put it this way. I go to a sex club at least 2x a week. I can't pass up any adult bookstore i see along the way. I surf the internet for sex as soon as I get home. And even after some hot and wild sex, I still need to JO in cam. I do this regularly that I normally get to bed at around 5am. I didn't feel anything weird about it until I saw this stupid show.
 

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LPCurious said:
OK let me put it this way. I go to a sex club at least 2x a week. I can't pass up any adult bookstore i see along the way. I surf the internet for sex as soon as I get home. And even after some hot and wild sex, I still need to JO in cam. I do this regularly that I normally get to bed at around 5am. I didn't feel anything weird about it until I saw this stupid show.

OH ok dude.. all joking aside.. and as a recent psych student grad, if you want my advice...
1) If you had the brass to ask the question, it clearly bothers you, this pornography issue. Being concerned, you may want to seek help, or go to an a sex addict meeting (like AA). There should be some places you can call in your phone book that deal with sexual questions and concerns.
2) REading your concerns.. makes me concerned :smile: I would strongly suggest you talk to a professional.. Not becasue there is necissarily something wrong with you.. but becasue it will release some of this presure u have built for urself.
 

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I think addiction to internet porn occurs because the individual has become de-sensitized by graphic pornographic images.

A result of repeated exposure and a need to seek out bigger, better, more graphic media leads to the addiction.

Western media also has a lot to answer for.............sex sells.
 

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dirtyde said:
I think addiction to internet porn occurs because the individual has become de-sensitized by graphic pornographic images.

A result of repeated exposure and a need to seek out bigger, better, more graphic media leads to the addiction.

Western media also has a lot to answer for.............sex sells.

It is definetaly an interesting point to consider.. desensitization is a tricky matter.. but that isn't the only reason people are addicted to porn. People are addicted to porn becasue they have fetishes or things they want to experience, and maybe they can't. other people become addicted to porn, because it allows them to go to a place that maybe they can't attain. guys and girls strive to watch porn if they feel inadequete and don't think they can get someone as "attractive" as the people in films...
AND.. some just get addicted because they enjoy the feeling of orgasm:biggrin1:
 

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hey, LP--can you tell this is an interesting question? I think the discussion is great. But I'm kind of curious. You said that none of what you were doing bothered you until you "saw this stupid show." What--you mean Brokeback? What was it that bothered you--which questions? That also sounds pretty interesting, if it is something you can share on the site.
 

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Sorcerer said:
I'm a willing and able tutor. By next Friday, you'll be hopelessly addicted:biggrin1:

Y'know, after this thread, I'm worried that the problem is... that I just plain enjoy sex, rather than having developed an unhealthy obsession for it. Show me the path to ridding myself of this inadequacy :wink:
 

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alex8 said:
Y'know, after this thread, I'm worried that the problem is... that I just plain enjoy sex, rather than having developed an unhealthy obsession for it. Show me the path to ridding myself of this inadequacy :wink:
With my heavy immersion sexxx program, we'll have you up to speed in no time.
 

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With my heavy immersion sexxx program, we'll have you up to speed in no time.

I thought I had long since made it clear that you were free to immerse yourself within my most intimate regions as heavily as you felt necessary :rolleyes:
 

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alex8 said:
I thought I had long since made it clear that you were free to immerse yourself within my most intimate regions as heavily as you felt necessary :rolleyes:
Oh Alex. I love your cute face, your biting wit, your amazing mind, your cute tight bod and gorgeous piece...but most of all for your nice deep ass. You know what to do (unzips)
 

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Sorcerer said:
Oh Alex. I love your cute face, your biting wit, your amazing mind, your cute tight bod and gorgeous piece...but most of all for your nice deep ass. You know what to do (unzips)

*lays back naked with legs wide open and an all-too-eager expression, while at the same time making no effort to disguise his own erection* :cool:
 

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Sorcerer said:
(forcefully rams long tongue up Alex's ass to prepare him for what's to come)

*starts to wrap legs more forcefully about your shoulders indicating that I am longing for more* :wink: