Sexual behaivior and 420.

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So since it is legal in some states (mine), I was interested in others experiences with cannabis and sex.

For my wife and I, it led us to a much more uninhibited place (without the side effects of alcohol). In years past she might have entertained anal sex (in her) once in a year. With pot... She wants my cock in her ass a couple times a month. I tend to eat pussy longer and she give head looooonger (and deep). She cums within minutes of any sex and she goes on for a long time. Wife says that for the first time in her life, she's comfortable to grab a toy and play alone if I'm not around. She never would have touched a toy as little as 10 years ago. We got back into pot 9 years ago.

For me personally, it's opened me up being very curious. Pegging is a thing we picked up after we got back into 420. I love it, she loves it. Once again, before pot - no way. And being with another guy would not be out of the question if the stars lined up.

And then there's the odd goofy things a guy comes up with when they are stoned: Stroking my cock intermittently while I pee in the shower (don't knock it till you try it).

Anyone care to chime in? Straight and or gay tell it.
 
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As a bi guy I'll give this advice. Only have sex when there's been drugs (including amyl) or alcohol used with a sex partner (husband, wife, friend, fuckbuddy etc..) you have a good stable relationship with and the grounds of consent are clear and explicit.

Sex + drugs/alcohol can get fucking messy and it's never good to engage in this type of behaviour (or BDSM etc...) with people you don't know well.
 

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As a bi guy I'll give this advice. Only have sex when there's been drugs (including amyl) or alcohol used with a sex partner (husband, wife, friend, fuckbuddy etc..) you have a good stable relationship with and the grounds of consent are clear and explicit.

Sex + drugs/alcohol can get fucking messy and it's never good to engage in this type of behaviour (or BDSM etc...) with people you don't know well.
Sort of agree. But perhaps I should say it's use is within boundaries of the people around you. All of my friends are over 50 (fastest growing segment of users). I don't know any that are doing hookups so can't say how it would affect those connections. Unlike other drugs, one is not hyped up and looking to drive a car which would reduce crazy hookups. Interesting thought.
 
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Sort of agree. But perhaps I should say it's use is within boundaries of the people around you. All of my friends are over 50 (fastest growing segment of users). I don't know any that are doing hookups so can't say how it would affect those connections. Unlike other drugs, one is not hyped up and looking to drive a car which would reduce crazy hookups. Interesting thought.

It's more in line with the current issues around rape and consent what is happening at the moment.
 

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I find marijuana makes an anterior fornix orgasm more readily accessible. I feel things more intensely. I can have more orgasms. I do not get bored after my own climax, no matter how long we go nor what we do. I almost never indulge, but when I do, I make sure it is clear that I intend to have sex and consent to it before I'm stoned. I also will withdraw that consent if I'm too high.
 

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I find marijuana makes an anterior fornix orgasm more readily accessible. I feel things more intensely. I can have more orgasms. I do not get bored after my own climax, no matter how long we go nor what we do. I almost never indulge, but when I do, I make sure it is clear that I intend to have sex and consent to it before I'm stoned. I also will withdraw that consent if I'm too high.
Comparing notes with the wife, she is similar to you. Historically she would mainly cum from external stimulation on her clit and outer pressure. Since then, she's cumming as soon as the head of my cock starts meeting her G-spot. Once started, she orgasms continually until I stop. The best part it's a learned response that carried over to not even being high. We love it!
 

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Comparing notes with the wife, she is similar to you. Historically she would mainly cum from external stimulation on her clit and outer pressure. Since then, she's cumming as soon as the head of my cock starts meeting her G-spot. Once started, she orgasms continually until I stop. The best part it's a learned response that carried over to not even being high. We love it!
I mainly climax from penetration with a partner, or clitoral stimulation if alone. I can give myself g-spot orgasms, I just don't usually try. I cannot give myself an anterior fornix orgasm. I know where it is, I know what I need, I just can't do it for myself. I can give myself a posterior fornix orgasm, but it takes ages. It takes a long time with a partner too. With pot, fornix orgasms are faster and more intense. Doesn't have to be pot. It could be liquor too. A significant difference for me is only pot will allow me to remain interested and aroused at a high enough level to have more than one or two orgasms. Sober, or drunk, after each orgasm my arousal instantly returns to base level. There is no plateau. With pot, the descent is much slower. Because I'm still aroused, it's easier to stay interested. None of this seems to translate to sober times. Then again, it typically takes me a few years to go through a gram. I'm not what you'd call habitual.
 
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I haven't had too much experience with pot except for a trip to Colorado where my girlfriend and I hit a dispensary and got some edibles. One evening we got pretty buzzed on them and I will say the inhibitions went down. When she was doing oral on me I was getting way more physical than I ever did before which had me face fucking her pretty aggressively... and she was really into it. Sex was much more animalistic!

One thing I only experienced when high was a double orgasm... When I was face fucking her I hit my climax and came in her mouth, but instead of stopping, like I usually do, I kept on thrusting. I found I myself going from my first climax right into a second, more intense one! I ended up gushing another load!

We always refer back to that episode as my "double bubble"... she always comments about how much cum I unloaded in her mouth that night! Wish it could happen again! It was the most amazing orgasm! Plus, no morning hangover from pot!