H8Monga: What exactly is sexual compatibility? I remember in college one of the guys was trying to figure out why I wanted to be a virgin. He brought up sexual compatibility, saying I'd never know what girl would be compatibile with me sexually unless I sampled the field. I didn't think of it then, I just defended myself, but I never asked him what he meant exactly. Does sexual compatibility mean that you and your partner have common interests, fetishes, and fantasies? Is it about sexual experience? How many people the other has been with and how good they've become from experience? Or does it imply that if you are big, you have to find someone to handle it or if you are small you'd have to find someone who doesn't care? Is it all the above and then some? What does it mean? (I didn't know where to put this post so sorry if it's in the wrong category).