Well here goes. My last relationship was with a hot Puerto Rican girl, but there was a signifigant catch.....we just , well, didnt fit. Our first night together was, um, awkward...its not a good sign when your girl says 'we got a problem' while she's blowin your shaft.... missionary was impossible with a standard Magnum condom ( ive since switched to the thinner ones) , and the only way to get it on was condomless, otherwise I just couldnt fit without hurting her. Later mutual measurement dermined I'm about 7.25" long , and my hardware's wider than an iPod nano ( new one with screen n camera, didnt have a string handy for an actual measurment at the time, sorry). Back to subject, my size caused problems. At first we couldnt have sex in any position besides her being on top, which trust me, I was just glad we could do it at all at that point.Then we tried doggy, which was impossible because I was too wide...omg that was not a rockstar moment. We had sex every night with her on top, her coming ( at least that wasnt a problem), then switching to missionary. After I came I asked her if she was feeling alright, and she mentioned that it hurt but it was manageable. Until she almost had to go to the ER after 6 days of nightly sex due to a particularly vicious bladder infection-she couldnt walk almost. Soo...we agreed to cut things back to once every three days. But that didnt do any favors, because I still had to initiate about an hour and change of foreplay before she could begin to accomodate me. That doesnt sound bad,but because of our 3 day hold and her need to warm up so much it meant spontaneous sex was over. No lunchtime quickies, no lets get busy in the car naughty business, none of that.No bottoming out during missionary either-I had to hold back or she'd be in pain. There would be times we'd both be in the mood-but she couldnt handle it every night. Fortunately she was on the pill religiously, cause the one time I tried with a condom on I literally couldnt fit in her. The relationship ended for other reasons, but I mention all that to ask what strategies I can use to avoid all that unpleasentness happening again. She enjoyed sex...but not the pain and bladder infections afterwards, and id like to avoid putting my next girl in the hospital if I can help it. Positions, techniques, etcetera. She said she had a tight pussy, but it felt normal enough to me-I had to finger her G spot with my index finger only, initially, but as time went on I could use the standard two fingers like I have with my other ex-gf's. If its relevant, she had A cup tits, which I didnt have ANY problem with, but she felt insecure enough about them, and that was just one more brick on the load, since obviously titfucking was not possible. Neither was anal, something she was interested in doing at one point.