I always considered sex with friends a 'taboo', personally, but I don't think it's the black and white anymore. Most of my close friends are female and I wouldn't fuck them just because.. well, it would be weird. One friend in particular where any sexual contact would just not feel right at all However, I've been wanting to fuck this friend of mine ever since I first met her almost 3 years ago. About 5'4", perfect small perky boobs, beautiful long blond hair, perfect big hips and a big ol' ass. We've had an odd relationship for a long time, she was actually straight up mean to me around the time I first met her but she still liked me. I was in a weird place of my life at the time. I told her to fuck off often enough, but meh. Fast forward a bit over a year and we grew pretty close. Fast forward one more year (early 2010 now) and we were even closer. Thing is, I'd been going through stuff (my father's death, a relationship with someone who made me feel like shit by handling my grief awfully) and she was too (finally seeking out psychological help) and.. this clashed. A lot. After an almost mutual mental breakdown on the phone we decided it's best to help ourselves because we can't help each other. A little less than a week ago she texted me saying that she misses me. I was so happy, so I asked her if I could call her one of these days. She instead suggested she'd come by my place (she moved a year ago to a different city, 2 hours per train away). Great! So on Saturday we just had a ton of fun through out the whole city, ended up eating at Subway and the staff fucking loved us (handing out free drinks and food) and that's when she suggested we get drunk. Went to the liquor store and got 2 bottles of liquor. Drank 'em both like water. Before I knew it we were making out and ridding ourselves of our clothes and I was going down on her (most perfect pussy ever). She passed out and I'm not a rapist, so I lied down and didn't do any more to her. When we got dressed again to put her on the train we were just... weird. We were kinda sobering up but we were just hurting each other to establish dominance (she was choking me, or when she was on her back, stopping me by driving her high heels into my chest -- felt amazing, I was pushing her, holding her down by her hair, biting her) and this continued on our way to the train station. We walked holding hands and every so often we'd continue our 'domination game' on the street for fun. After she got home I called her to make sure she got home alright; we ended up having phone sex. And now? Nothing and absolutely nothing is weird. Feel more close to her than ever before. Sure, we didnt straight up fuck (yet???? who knows), it just felt 'right' -- we had no need to talk about it. And even if we fucked, which she said she wished on the phone, things woulda been ok. I do have some romantic feelings for her, but I know I want another girl (and she does too, and she's crazy about that girl too and doesn't want anything more than for me and her to be together). We just had some fun and we're crazy about each other, but it's not gonna come in between our friendship. Honestly, nothing relieves me more than the notion that things are ok. Sooo, sex with (very, very close) friends, always a 'no-go' or sometimes ok? My personal opinion; 'friendship' like 'human sexuality' is way to vague to make any generalizations about. Discuss I'd say!