Sexual fantasy

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  1. Leobakker

    Leobakker Well-Known Member

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    Hello ladies!

    Has your sexual fantasy ever come true and was it as good as you hoped?

    Or do you still have a certain fantasy and why isnt it done yet?

    My wife has a sexual fantasy that i know what it is, but she dont want to do it. Tough i would like to do it for/with her.

    Grtz Leo
     
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    I've had only a few fantasies that didn't fruition.
    That's life I guess.
    I'm not cut up about it and now that desire has died a natural death.
    There's no longer any internal motivation to pursue it or engineer a
    situation to make it happen.

    I consider myself extremely fortunate sexually.
    I've lived and experienced enough different sorts of sex
    to fill 4 +++ lifetimes so I really have no grounds to be disgruntled.
     
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    My fantasies have always involved the outdoors, and I think I've fulfilled every single one.
     
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    Most of them have been done. The exception is one I don't want to actually make reality in any way and one that is just very impractical. The latter is pretty impractical, given it focuses on the kink I have for blood. *Shrug* No big deal to not make that one reality, either.
     
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    I don't have any unfulfilled fantasies that I actually want to play out for real.
     
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    Lived a pretty varied sexual life, so done most everything I could think of. Only one fantasy, but have no interest in living it out.
     
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    I'm pretty much fulfilled tbh, my husband and myself have been together for over a decade now, we are both very highly sexed, adventurous and curious. We've tried and done things I would never have imagined doing and enjoying so much, I really can't think of anything we haven't done but of course we continue to practice what we enjoy most X
     
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    Yes and yes.

    As to why... I'd rather not say
     
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    Several of my fantasies are the kind that will never come to fruition because it would literally be criminal to do so.

    Others will remain in my spank-bank because my guy isn't interested in pegging. I would never try to convince him to do something he was turned-off by.
     
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    and this should be the attitude of many men around here. Too bad they want to continue to entice their wives to fulfill their fantasies, even when the wife is uninterested.


    As for me, yes I've had fantasies fulfilled, and yes there are some that never will … No loss to me. Sometimes fantasies are better left as fantasies.
     
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