Look, you are clearly the one who is full of shit.
I doubt seriously ANYONE is even remotely harrassing you.
What you have written sounds more like a fantasy you wish were true.
Oh, and, BTW.... QUOTING YOU , verbatim, is NOT '"putting words in your mouth"
Don't foist your perverse sexual fantasies on me, pal.
This kind of angry reaction to what was meant to be helpful is indicative of my having hit too close to home.
I have never harassed anyone. I don't even flirt.
Now who's putting words in someone's mouth? With each successive comment you reveal the real nature of your character... or lack thereof.
Of course you attack someone for suggesting you might be over-reacting...
Because you are over-reacting.
Your latest post is just another over-reaction.
Hey, Nostrilbumbass.... I would be the first one to tell a co-worker they were crossing the line if I saw them mistreat someone else.
And I would also be the first person to laugh at a joke made at my expense.
I know you are, but what am I?
You keep tossing onto my shoulders your own inadequacies, fantasies and fears.
I don't have those problems. If someone gives me shit I think is over the line... I ADDRESS it with the person responsible.
And , FYI... this shit you are foisting is over the line.
Its quite clear that YOU are the problem in your workplace.
as to the kind of employee I am?
Um...Currently, I am the BOSS. But in the many places I have worked, I have seen 'real' harrassment.
and I have seen manipulative posuer's who make claims to get money or concessions...
I have also seen hypersensitive people who are so obsessed with sexual thoughts that they imagine sexual content in EVERYTHING...
I have seen enough of it that I can pretty readily identify what kind You are.
Such invective.
Yes... a perusal of my posting here will illustrate how I always spout the most popular opinions...
Oh, wait... no I actually said the opposite of what others said... I did not accept your representation of your "working " experience because it was blatantly a fantasy and not reality. I suggested you might be mis-reading events.
Now, its well established that delusional people react angrily to anything that might expose their self deception...
Thank you for making my point.
Oh you are just so fulla shit. If you are having this kind of trouble getting something like sexual harrassment in the workplace dealt with... IN TODAY'S world... then the only possible explanation is that you simply don't have any actual evidence of it being real.
You are quite right... it is extremely difficult and grueling to try and stop IMAGINARY harassment.
The only thing you know how to do is disrespect anyone who poses a threat to your beliefs. You probably don't have any marketalble skills other than being a mega bitch. While everyone else was building skills and eventally a career, you were perfecting your back stabbing swipe. You're the heckler laughing in back of the classroom. You're so busy laughing you never learned anything except maybe how to get attention by being an asshole.
... and I am not the one dishing out the verbal abuse. You are. I gave you a considered and well intentioned opinion, and you responded with insults and accusations.I wouldn't consider verbal abuse a social skill. It's more like a sign of an overly developed ego. In other words, you think your better than everybody.
Supersized,
If you can't take someone's constructive criticism.....don't start threads on here asking for advice.
I'm not the first person this has ever happened to. That is why employers usually show videos of sexual harassment and go over that it happens and that it is illegal. I've sat through two presentations about sexual harrassment in my career. It turns out that the staring and butt brushing are common tactics.
Saying that it doesn't exist or you've never witnessed it. Therfore, it can't be happening is called "secondary wounding". I suggest anyone who fits this description needs to google the term to gain a better understanding of it.
Better yet, get a book or video on sexual harassment, bullying, or mobbing.
You might want to consider wearing a tight athletic supporter and loose pants. The combination should make your endowment practically invisible.
What if instead of objecting to being felt up, you said loudly, "Do that again! It feels good!" Could that embarrass them into behaving decently? Or, if they stare at your crotch, what would happen if you said, "Do you want to take it out?" Would that shame them into stopping that behavior? Or perhaps you could invite them over to your house to take a photo of what you have so that they could put it on their desks. Out grossing people just might work.
At one point I seriously did consider that, beating them a their own game. The Law has proven to be a dead end. To a certain extent it worked. If someone stared at my bulge I found another guy who showed and ogled his crotch. The staring stopped. I had one supervisor who used to try giving me massages. Instead of asking her to stop, I started giving her massages. She looked right at my hands the first time I did that. It stopped right away. I feel a little dirty, but, I'm sure that will wear off. It did get my career back on track again. I think the next time somone leers at my crotch, Ill start feeling it through my pants and see what happens.
Oh that is undoubtedly the way to handle "alleged" sexual harassment.
Like "lafever" you ask for help and become pissed off when the responder doesn't side with your version of what's happened.
You have lied about the size of your dick and I don't believe anyone could even see this "alleged bulge" you think you have.
I never agree with Phil A. but I think he is correct in his assessment of the situation and of your character. You are delusional dude.
No wonder you have been fired so many times.
See a shrink it couldn't hurt.
cigarbabe:saevil:
I've had bosses and coworkers just stare at my crotch during a conversation about work. One guy even commented on my penis's length.
Oh that is undoubtedly the way to handle "alleged" sexual harassment.
Like "lafever" you ask for help and become pissed off when the responder doesn't side with your version of what's happened.
You have lied about the size of your dick and I don't believe anyone could even see this "alleged bulge" you think you have.
I never agree with Phil A. but I think he is correct in his assessment of the situation and of your character. You are delusional dude.
No wonder you have been fired so many times.
See a shrink it couldn't hurt.
cigarbabe:saevil:
You can suck my dick.