Sexual orientation

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  1. dickapick

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    Read a lot of times already that it is unbelievable for a 100% straight guy to look at other men's dicks. Like we all do here.

    I however believe a man can be 100% straight, but still not be homophobic. I consider myself 100% straight because I don't feel the urge to have sex with a man. I even don't want to touch another man's manmeat.

    I however do like to compare to other man. I do like to see big dick (straight) porn. I am in awe when I see some penises out there. I do like to get compliments, also from men.

    Is it right for me to chose 100% straight? Discuss!

    And no flaming/ trolling please ..
     
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    I am 100% straight
     
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    I think many of us are bisexual to a certain degree. Having a strong orientation on (or at least interest in) cocks I would choose 80% straight, 20% gay if I were you. That's clear enough. Good luck!
     
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    Only you know yourself. Unless someone gives me reason not too, I generally take people at their word. If what is happening between a persons legs or ears isn't hurting me or mine then go with it, I won't knock them.
     
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    I'm with the OP on this.

    I'm interested in the variety of cocks out there, what guys do to and with them, but I've absolutely no desire to touch or feel one.

    I'm also fascinated to see the views of the female members on matters to do with sex, sexual differences and of course cocks.

    I do have exhibitionist tendencies and I'm not particular whether the viewers are male or female but I would only, have only been, intimate with women; and yes, I have had ocassional gay come on's but I've declined them, politely.

    So, I label myself 100% straight and feel perfectly comfortable with that.
     
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    If you look at cocks and are not at all turned on by said other cocks, then I agree that you are 100% straight.

    But if you look at cocks and don't mind touching one, or don't mind another guy touching your cock..then you are not 100% straight.

    If you cam with other guys with your cocks out..pretty sure this isn't 100% straight.

    I think most people have bisexual tendancies, I just don't see the point in pretending to be 100% something when you're not.

    I'm 10% gay cos I appreciate a nice woman's body and I'm open to experimenting...but I'm not attracted to women, per se.
     
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    choose whatever percentage makes you happy.
     
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    I am 100% sure I love men. and that makes Mama happy. lol
     
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    Fuck yes, why not? I know there are people on this site who would disagree, but fuck that shit. I am a total homo, and I still catch myself looking at a great pair of boobs now and again. And why wouldn't I? Boobs are great. Just because I'm gay doesn't mean I have to be repulsed by them.

    Same for you with dicks. Society would tell you that you have to not look at them because that's gay/bad/sinful/shameful. Fuck that. I find guys' faces way more sexually appealing than their dicks. So...does that mean that if you look at a guy's face you're being gay? Same thing with hands. Guys' hands can be sooooo hot. So when you look at another guy's hands, does that put you on some slippery slope to gagging on cocks?

    Hell no.

    Not hurting anyone? Be who you are. Fuck the haters.
     
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    Phew!! I was worried about this...

    I agree completely with erratic. I think it's entirely reasonable for a guy to appreciate that another guy is really attractive or has a huge cock, without wanting it inside them, in the same way that you can appreciate that a guy is tall or good at sports or academically brilliant. We learn an idea of right/wrong when it comes to this, rather than just being able make an observation.
     
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    I agree with OP, I tell ya one thing....I can't look at a mans cock without wanting it or pleasuring it. Same goes for a womans pussy, I love both and could never trade in one for the other. Now I tend to be real picky in my quest for sex. I just need to be attracted to them in one form or another. I see your situation as not lust or desire.....but merely comparison or a turn on to see a girl get pounded by a big cock.
     
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    Consider it done. Dutch men have some of the finest cocks on this planet and you do them proud.

    As far as 100% straight, there's some lucky lady in the Netherlands. :smile:
     
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    What a ridiculous statement. That's like saying it's impossible for a non-Christian to look at a cross, or to appreciate a stained glass window.

    Looking at, comparing, that sort of thing...perfectly normal and straight behavior.

    Longing for, desiring, imagining...not so straight, any more.
     
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    You're only masquerading as a redneck, aren't you?
     
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    My $0.02

    I'm curious, as a gay male do you seek out porn where you can admire breasts? I feel like there's a significant difference between being comfortable enough with whatever your orientation and gender identity are, to be able to admire the body/body parts of someone that falls outside your orientation... and seeking out porn that has this, or that, or the other thing.

    I don't think there is a single thing wrong with a person not being heterosexual. However, to me if a male who says they're straight likes big dick porn, etc... I think they're not quite at 100% straight. And I don't think there is a damn thing wrong with that. I also dislike trying to quantify my sexual orientation by a percentage too, though :tongue:
     
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    I mean not to insult anyone but I don't think anyone is 100t straight and I don't think anyone is 100% gay. Straight and non homophobic is still straight. Because you don't act like a jack-ass to gay people doesn't mean you are a little bit gay.

    For me personally, I never quite got turned off by women but I know I like men much better. To me that makes me a bit straight but more gay than straight. I wouldn't feel grossed out or anything being with a woman but it is more natural for me to be with a man.

    This is new uncharted territory for this generation to determine. I do find it amazing off when guys put 100% straight and they are on this site complimenting guys cocks and looking at pics of their cocks. But it is all about how you define it in your head. If you have no intention of ever acting on or even having gay urges, then you are 100% straight.

    I really hate these labels too. I am not gay, I am not straight, I am just a person who sees beauty and sexuality of both genders
     
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    yes I like females but i like guys much better and where I can admire MTF trans I prefer ftm they are so much hotter to me
     
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    I have thought about this a lot. Never having had sex, I have questioned my sexuality a lot. I put down 90% straight, simply because I am a virgin. I haven't experienced any kind of sex, so how could I know?

    I have, however, never gotten aroused watching other guys in video chat.
    I have gotten aroused reading compliments and encouragement when showing myself in video chat.
    I have a hard time imagining myself with a guy, or at least a hard time keeping my arousal up when imagining it.
    I love imagining myself with women, preferrably women in my daily life, not supermodels or pornstars.
    I have a hangup with big cocks, that's why i signed up at lpsg.
    I can find beauty in a man.
    I can feel sexual attraction to women, to the point of chills and dizzyness.

    So, I don't know .... I'll just leave it at 90% straight :)
     
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    I prefer the people I'm attracted to, and who are attracted to me.
     
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    I think getting aroused at the thought you are sexually attractive, period (for the Americans out there), is completely normal.

    I reckon most of the guys on here - including the straight(er) ones - get a kick out of being complimented on their pictures, whether the compliment comes from a girl or a guy.
     
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