Sexual Preference For The Guys.....

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by redheadinsf, May 29, 2009.

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Sexual Preference For The Guys.....

  1. I'm Not Sure Yet

    10.3%
  2. Anal Top

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  3. Anal Top & Versatile

    6.9%
  4. Anal Bottom

    17.2%
  5. Anal Bottom And Versatile

    10.3%
  6. Anal Versatile All The Way

    3.4%
  7. Oral Top

    10.3%
  8. Oral Top & Versatile

    6.9%
  9. Oral Bottom

    20.7%
  10. Oral Bottom And Versatile

    10.3%
  11. Oral Versatile All The Way

    17.2%
  12. Jack Off

    44.8%
  13. Kissing

    31.0%
  14. Spooning

    24.1%
  15. Like It All

    20.7%
  16. Other

    17.2%
  1. redheadinsf

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    Your sexual preference is:
    I'm Not Sure Yet, Anal Top, Anal Bottom, Anal Top & Versatile, Anal Bottom & Versatile, Anal Versatile All The Way, Oral Top, Oral Bottom, Oral Versatile All The Way, Jack Off, Kissing, Spooning, Cuddling, Other, Like It All or...?
     
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    I know I'm goingt to catch hell for this but......
    I'm anal Top for gay guys, oral bottom with str8 guys.
     
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    Jacking off I guess :redface:
     
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    Not being steeped in gay politics, I have to ask.... why would you catch hell? It seems to make sense to me. Especially since there are a lot of semi-bi (or "str8-acting" bi) guys who don't mind head from another guy.
     
  5. D_Jerry_Atric

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    Where are the options for Sadist, masochist, Dominant/Domme, sub, switch, SM top, SM bottom, SM switch, bondage top, bondage bottom, bondage switch, Master/Mistress, slave, and Sir? :sad: What about fisting?

    Also what if a guy is heterosexual or even bisexual and is an anal sex bottom to a woman or a fisting top or fisting bottom? Or if he's an oral sex top or an oral sex bottom for biological women?
     
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    Because those guys aren't really heterosexual or straight. If they were straight they wouldn't be having sex with men in the first place.

    They can call themselves "straight" all they want but they're just closeted bisexual and gay men, and in denial. Likewise bisexual and gay men can fantasize all they want about the guy that they're having sex with being "straight" but if he's so heterosexual/straight why is he having sex with men and not women?

    It's all a fantasy that will never come true.
     
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    ANAL FOR TOP, not into labelling but I much prefer SO-CALLED STRAIGHT GUYS

    Has more to do with techniques, as you can see straight and gay porns are 2 COMPLETELY DIFFERENT COUNTRIES ALTOGETHER, not into the latter
     
  8. matt121matt121

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    Before I answer this can someone please describe further the whole Oral Top/Oral Bottom options, I'm just not use to that terminology.

    I mean to clarify is like the Oral Top the person who sucks the cock and the Oral Bottom the guy who's getting his cock sucked?
     
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    Reverse that.

    The oral top is the guy getting sucked AKA feeder.

    The oral bottom is the guy doing the sucker AKA cocksucker.

    If a guy is having sex with a woman the oral top would be a guy that does not give oral sex to a woman and the oral bottom would be a guy that just services a woman's pussy with his mouth.

    I didn't invent those terms those are just how they are used.

    I've been an oral sex top, oral sex bottom, and I love to 69 when I have sex with men. I just get picky who I suck and I only do that to boyfriends/partners.

    For biological women I'd be a totally pure oral sex bottom, and the same goes for transmen.
     
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    Thanks for the clarification. Totally wouldn't have guessed that way.

    I just assumed it was the other way since the guy thats getting sucked would usually be on the bottom, but I guess this goes along with dom/sub and that the guy topping would be more masculine so he would be the one getting sucked rather than being the one too suck, and I guess since they figure that the bottom sucks the top prior to penetration in some cases.
     
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    I've always thought that an oral top would suck cock but not bottom EVER. An oral bottom would suck cock but not top ever.

    Both of these terms to me means the top will suck cock as will the bottom. But when it comes to anal, the oral top is ALWAYS the top and the oral bottom is ALWAYS the bottom.
     
  12. D_Jerry_Atric

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    The whole Dom/sub thing does not always have to do with who is more masculine. Sometimes it can if the submissive wants it to be about that; but not all masculine bisexual/gay men want male partners who are not masculine/butch as people have written about here in this thread.

    It's a bad stereotype to assume that when men have sex together that one guy will be masculine and one guy will be feminine/something other than masculine.

    As far as penetration goes that's what oral sex is.

    You're penetrating someone's mouth with a penis or being penetrated, or penetrating each other in a 69.
     
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    For me I haven't fucked but love sucking. So I guess I would be an oral bottom but, I want to be the top rather then bottom. And with women I wouldn't think in terms of top and bottom.
     
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