Hey Guys,
Sorry that I always seem to come here with questions, well I guess that's what the board is for! Anyway I just wondered what you think is more important in defining (or at least understanding) your sexuality:
Fantasy
or actual sexual experience
Let me explain: I have noticed something about myself which makes my whole sexuality question even more complex. When I think about sex about 80% of the time I fantasize about guys or situations with guys and girls. Yet when it comes to actually having the opportunity to have sexual contact with a guy i seem to get turned off. All my sexual experience had been with girls and has been amazing, if I had the chance to have sex with a guy or a girl right now, in my head I would think "guy" but when confronted with the reality I would pick a girl. The thing is I don't think its out of fear and I've had plenty of opportunities to fool around with guys, its just THE REALITY of girls is so much more attractive to me.
God, That sounds ridiculous, does anyone understand?
Thanks
Slamdunk_Dude
Sorry that I always seem to come here with questions, well I guess that's what the board is for! Anyway I just wondered what you think is more important in defining (or at least understanding) your sexuality:
Fantasy
or actual sexual experience
Let me explain: I have noticed something about myself which makes my whole sexuality question even more complex. When I think about sex about 80% of the time I fantasize about guys or situations with guys and girls. Yet when it comes to actually having the opportunity to have sexual contact with a guy i seem to get turned off. All my sexual experience had been with girls and has been amazing, if I had the chance to have sex with a guy or a girl right now, in my head I would think "guy" but when confronted with the reality I would pick a girl. The thing is I don't think its out of fear and I've had plenty of opportunities to fool around with guys, its just THE REALITY of girls is so much more attractive to me.
God, That sounds ridiculous, does anyone understand?
Thanks
Slamdunk_Dude