invisibleman
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Well I think that you shouldn't come out and say anything definitive. Be with some women. Be with some guys. Get in tuned with yourself and not by anyone else. I always knew who I was when I was kid. There was a lot of pressure to be with women but I never succumbed to that. I have to live with myself. They don't. If you ever decide or you find you really like both genders. I guess you have it made because you have finally figured out that you're just a sexual person just like any one else (even though, some choose to deny that they actually have a sexual side). Don't ever let some f--ked up individuals make your sexual decisions for you. Don't let them influence you at all. You have your own way to walk in this life and life is very short. Be honest in how you feel. Because people feel different than you do doesn't mean how you feel is invalid. Everybody is different.Originally posted by Slamdunk_dude@Oct 14 2005, 09:46 PM
DenBoy,
That is really interesting that you say about waking fantasies versus sex dreams. Most of my sex dreams are about girls wheras my waking fantasies are about guys (like you) I wonder why that is? I would say that I have always fantasised about guys more though (when I'm awake lol)
Hmmm...It's so tough, also because I feel like I want to express to my friends how I'm feeling but don't have it sorted out myself (I have already told 2 friends that I am attracted to both sexes and they were cool with it) Maybe thats what I should tell people for now until I figure stuff out. My biggest worry though is that if i ever decided I was gay that people would think I was lying about being attracted to both sexes, I'm a very open and honest person and it would crush me if my family and friends thought I had decieved them.
I was thinking earlier, I think a large portion of the problem is that from a young age it is automatically assumed that you are heterosexual, rather than having people talk to you and ask you about your feelings to both sexes. That way it is so much harder to tell people that you like both sexes or just the same sex as people have this image built up of you in their mind, but a lot of the image was created by them, not you.
Does that even make sense?
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