Sexuality. What do you think? Str8, bi and gay guys. Ladies also, please comment :)

[zack800]

Hey guys and ladies! I really appreciate the comments all of you have given me! I really appreciate all your efforts. In fact, I have been thinking of migrating in the near future once it's time for me to do so... but first, I have to make plans to study in college overseas. Guess that'll be a good headstart

 

[georgiabass14]

Well, for what it's worth, my friend finally got back to me. Here's what he had to say:

Hey buddy,

Oh crap, sorry I have been away from GG for so long! I only just read this today! Apologies!

Yep, it's illegal here in Singapore. To be honest though, it isn't like the Middle East where people or the law will come and lynch you. If you keep to yourself and don't "make a scene", people generally tolerate you. The particular law isn't enforced unless you really push your luck (sex in the park, orgies, etc).

I'm not out publicly, though I am out at work and to my family and friends. It's easier for me since people don't think I'm gay. Straight people anyway. I kinda blend it so I get not trouble, so to speak. I do hold my boyfriend's hand in public and I occassionally get digusted stares but that's about it.

Hope that answers your question? I'm so so sorry for taking so long!!

All the best!

 

[HiddenLacey]

IMO everyone is attracted to whomever they want. I see nothing wrong with being straight, gay or bi. What's the difference? Your still a person no matter who you choose to have sex with. If you want guys go for it, and if you want both go for it. That is your decision that no one else should get to influence. To many people end up unhappy because they try to be whatever society wants them to be. Just be you.

Oops edit: I got side tracked. You can still have a child if your gay, it may be alittle more difficult but it can still happen. Whatever your choose just make yourself happy. Goodluck!

 

[invisibleman]

Hey guys. This is the first time I'm starting a new topic here and I'd like to hear what you guys have to say about the following questions that I have in my mind....
To start off, I'm 18 this year and I'm Singaporean Chinese.

I decided to be even more conscious of my reactions to guys after chatting with shybiguy and this is what I have to say about the observations of my feelings.
Today, 18th March 2010, I made a trip to a garden in Singapore with my family and thereafter went to a nearby shopping mall. Then I took a train to return home after that. Throughout my outing and throughout the past year, I realise I find more guys attractive than females... That also applies to caucasian guys. I just don't know why. As long as they are slim, pretty tall, muscular(a plus), I find them sooooo hot. When I see those guys walk past me or standing next to me or in front of me, I squirm internally with blood surging through my veins.

I think that you are bisexual with tendencies more towards men.

Oh yes. I'd also like to hear what you guys think of homosexuality. Does having a physical, sexual and emotional attraction qualify me as a homosexual/ bisexual(I have sexual attractions for females too but I find hot guys hotter than hot females lol) And no, I'm not trying to label myself I just wanna understand the perspectives of you guys on this Seriously. I really wanna enjoy this process of discovering myself so that I'll really be true to myself.
About gay porn...I basically watched them and noticed how I react to them in the videos... the following is what I have to say:

Since the start of my puberty, I've always enjoyed watching guys stroking their cocks on cam... no doubt. Also, I would spend hours looking at the bodies of hot, muscled men. Sometimes, that would make me sooo raging hard and that hardon remains there as long as I continue looking as those pics.
When I looked at to college roommates enjoying sex today, that was a massive turn ON. When they starting kissing and stroking each other's bodies oooo. I got such a hardon and my whole body started flushing, heart started palpitating. Damn. And when those guys whipped out their above-average cocks, Yes, I did have the urge to stroke those beautiful balls and cock, suck it and make them squeal in gratification. Anal sex seemed pretty hot too except the fact that I don't like being bottom. I guess it's just a matter of time that I'll accept it huh? I think that rimming really is disgusting... I can't imagine sticking and flicking my tongue around the shithole....lol...

I don't slurp butthole either. LOL.

<joke>If I meet a guy that likes getting his asshole licked--I am gonna pull out the cow tongue in my refrigerator and give his asshole a licking he'll won't ever forget. LOL</joke>

Sorry for making this message soo erotic as I am merely trying to describe those feelings I had. Well, however erotic your feelings may be...they definately show who you are. And that should be the indicator.

So what do you guys think of this?

Another questions I've always had in my mind is:

What makes a real man? (This question goes out to all the really mature men out there)
And after reading this post, what do you think of my sexuality? I'm not trying to label myself but I wanna see where I'm headed towards.
If possible, use the sexuality spectrum as prescribed in LPSG thanks everyone!

If I do indeed consider the implications of living with a man next time and forgo the responsibilities that a man seemingly should have, (having a family, children, being the breadwinner of a family etc), will that mean I'm less of a man?
Thanks Guys!

Hope to hear from you all :smile:

Being a "real" man depends on a lot of things. It depends on who you ask...but I will honestly say that you are being a real man regardless of what you do. You will have to decide what makes you a real man. You cannot be someone else's idea of a real man. You cannot listen to everyone and follow what they say for your own happiness. In the end, you alone have to be happy with the results. And sometimes you will not be happy with the decisions you make. But you go with the flow.

I think that you should listen to your heart, follow what path you need to go in life. Be yourself. Be happy.

If you want a lot of people in your life, you definately have to decide how they all are going to fit in the scheme of things.

 

[luvmycock]

i understand where you coming from. just be who you are! if u like guys, cool. it u like girls, cool. if u like both, cool. express yourself, dont repress yourself.