I haven't had sex in three years (actually, I've lost count). All I can THINK about lately is sex - fantasizing about a massive cock inside of me. Is this because I've reached my "sexual peak" era of the thirtysomething phase? My dildo and I have become GOOD friends lately. (even better friends than we've ever been - and we've always been close, mind you) I'm finding I spend more time on this site reading posts, looking at pics of hawt (that's hot, only REALLY hot) cocks and even looking at the Adult Website links and masturbating to some really down and dirty porn. I'm not the type of woman to just go out and find me a piece of meat (clearly with the three year gap), but I'm starting to seriously consider it. There was even a guy I was PMing from this site who suggested coming to visit. He seemed like a neat guy but I think I've scared him off entirely with my overzealous "yes, come to my town!" response. Any guidance for how to re-focus and get past this obsession that seems to have taken over my very being?