Sexy things you've done with friends that you never had sex with

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  1. B_Sweetcar

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    I've always had male friends that really turned me on, I'd usually cultivate the friendship and we'd get very close. This was mostly while I was still a teenager and continued till I was 30 or so.

    We'd usually spend a lot of time alone, going on trips, camping or spending the weekend sleeping over. It usually involved us getting drunk and/or stoned. Anyway, a few examples:

    One of my friends would come by just after I got off work. Pretty much to hang around AND use me to drive him around so he could visit his friends. He'd come in and I tell him to come back to my room. I'd get changed out of my work clothes in front of him while talking. Sometimes I'd change my underwear too and stand around him in the nude.
    After the evening's activities were over, I'd drop him off at his house and we'd sit in the car for a while play boxing or wrestling...GOSH, I'd always get so hard doing that!!

    I'd usually spend at least one weekend nite sleeping over at another friend's house. Usually get to wasted to drive home so I spent the nite in his room. One time I actually found myself laying on the floor with my pants and undies down at my knees!! He looked like he was pretending to be asleep and the lights were still on....I probably did that myself because the pants I was wearing made my balls itch soo much..

    One afternoon we went to check out a campground not far from home, to see if it would be a good place just to get away for the weekend. I had my sleeping bag with me (for some reason). We parked the car, put the sleeping bag on the grass and got in it together. We actually fell ASLEEP like that! A park ranger came by and woke us up saying; "There'll be none of THAT at this campground! So we hurried off.

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    Alright, let me preface this by saying I'm a terrible driver and I'm afraid of the dark. The dark... and snakes are my two greatest phobias. Also, the person in this story was not strictly speaking a friend so much as he was... a total and complete stranger.


    I'm driving down the I-5 on my way back home from a quick trip to California. It's like 1:30 am and I'm getting more tired as the miles drag on in spite of Red Bull and extremely loud Fiona Apple songs (don't judge me, you know you liked Criminal.) So, for those of you that aren't familiar, the I-5 outside of major cities in Washington state is pretty desolate and goes through some pretty large expanses of what is essentially wilderness.

    So, driving a long, I plow head first into a deer (really hope it was Bambi's mother because I've never been so angry in my life.) The deer rolls up over the hood, smashes the windshield, and then goes over the roof and off the back of my car. I've slammed on my breaks and whack my head on the steering wheel. From this point forward my memory is a little blurry but I know I threw my car into reverse to make sure I killed the deer (as I knew my poor Miata was totaled and when I say I loved that car that's putting it mildly.)

    Of course, there's no cell reception, it's dark outside and I'm not entirely clear what might be around the corner. But I'm dizzy, I'm bleeding from my head (which I knew even then was bad news thanks to episodes of 24 and ER) and know I have to get to civilization so I just start walking. I get about a mile I guess when lo and behold I'm illuminated by a pair of headlights. I drunkenly start waving my hands but apparently I didn't need to do so.

    This guy (when I say knight-in-shining-armor I mean that almost literally except that he wasn't actually wearing armor) had seen my car off almost on the side of the road and had apparently almost hit it. From what I can remember he was very good looking. Kind of a... rough and tumble sort of good looking, like Johnny Depp. He has a CB in his truck and makes a call to get an ambulance and a tow truck out to my car to help me out.

    Well... I'm a baby. My head is bleeding, my car is totaled, I've been wandering around in the dark for what to me seemed like a long time... so I snapped. In the cab of his truck, I just started crying. He gently put his arm around me, pulled me close, and kept shushing me and telling me help was on the way and that I'd be alright. His voice was like...vocal chocolate and his hands were very reassuring. He kind of massaged my back and shoulders and I just kind of melted into his chest. I fell asleep that way. When I woke up I was in a hospital in Seattle. I never saw the guy again or even got his name.

    For the little while we were together though? It was maybe one of the most sensual moments of my life. Granted I've had several "porno" moments that would be considered sexier... that one, in my head, has to be at the very top for encounters with people that did not turn into sex.



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    Before I came out to my straight friend, we went to Atlanta together. When we were in the hotel room, he expressed a concern over a hard place on his groin. I offered to look at it, so he showed me. I was right up next to it, my head a few inches away, and commented that it looked normal to me.

    Another time, after I had come out, he wanted to trade foot and calf massages, so I gladly complied.

    A much younger straight Malaysian guy that I met and hung with loved to swap massages, hold my hand, and even kissed my neck once when drunk at a party in front of others saying, "I love you."
     
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    I think there's this strange nether world of sensual/sexual activity between guys when we're younger. Part of it is bravado, being crazy and pushing some boundaries all at the same time. Guys together can make fun of each other around sexual topics by de-sensitizing our play and physical contact. I've had buddies do really homoerotic things to me that are over-the-top. By the very fact that they are so outrageous, they lose their erotic aspects and just become silly and funny. For instance I've had a lot of guys who want to make out with me. But because they do it under the guise of "gay chicken" or some other wild party games, it loses it's taboo quality. This is also true of guys exposing their dicks to one another as part of a dare. It's really common in high school and even more so in college. It's also a time when many guys are discovering their emotions, and sometimes those emotions are directed toward our best buddies. It's a part of growing up.
     
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    I found that story quite beautiful. And I'm a little jealous...(just not of the hitting the deer part...omg! glad you were okay!)
     
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    Well friends, yes, i used to have a best friend like 7 years ago, and we used to sleep in the same bed, shirtless, also we changed clothes in front of each other and all that stuff, huggings when saying good bye, etc. But with him it was not really the things we made, but the things he said to me. It was all before coming out. (He is straight as they come). One day when he was looking for me and didnt find me (in the university), he told me in front of everyone "Where were you?? Dont you know that when you are not around me i feel bad??!" i just laughed so hard. Another day we were talking about the fights he had when he was a teenager, and he said to me "you know, irudesan, i hope we never get to fight (physically) because if i hit you, it will hurt me more than it will hurt you" That phrase just got stuck in my head for a while. And other things like that, and because of that i kind of fell in love with him at the time... Thats why i hate confident, and love expressing straight guys!! (im joking hahaha) they tell you sweet things, act as if they really care about you, and then are surprised when you come out to them and tell them you have feelings and all the shit. Long story short, right now we are not friends like we used to be. Its not like we are mad at each other, its just that we rarely see each other actually, we are in different paths now, and he is getting married... preparing to live happily ever after with his wife.

    A total stranger... yes, once, it was really a "romantic" moment i guess.

    It was one of those days in which everythings turns out bad. I had a fight with my dad, over a money issue, at that time i was in the university, and i commuted like almost 2 hours, and i couldnt find a taxi to go home when i got from the city, so i took a bus and had to walk like 15 minutes to get to my home. The moment i got down from the bus it started to rain, it was a mild rain, so i just said "great" and kept walking fast, because i had a laptop in my bag, and i didnt want it to become wet. I had been walking for more or less 5 minutes when i just saw a shadow in the floor of someone behind me. "Getting home?" what was he said, and smiled. He was young, as me, and cute, taller than me, like 1.80 (im 1.70) and i was just like, "ehhh, yeah, kind of", and smiled back, then he got next to me and covered me with his umbrella, and said "this rains are not good, people could get a cold". And kept walking beside me holding the umbrella. It was really really awkward because i was 23 at the time, and he seemed to be a young guy, maybe the same age, i was totally not expecting someone to literally cover me with an umbrella. It seems a simple gesture but for me at the time was like the sweetest thing someone (stranger) had done for me. (specially in that "bad day" i was having) Two strangers, sharing an umbrella. We talked about trivial things like we knew each other, (he holding the umbrella all the time) and then i got near my home and he walked to his way. I never asked his name, or saw him again, but he really made my day at the time. :biggrin1:
     
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    Hung out naked all day at a nude beach a couple of times.
     
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    Justsomezombie, that is a sweet story :)
     
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    Wow guys, interesting. Some more about the last guy I was telling you about (the guy I fell asleep with in the sleeping bag). He was a blonde guy with brown eyes...he had a great athletic body....and a coy sexyness about him...Even my mom thought he was sexy! Anyway, after we'd known each other for a bit, I'd suggest doing things together that I thought were sexy, but never crossing the line. We'd get high and then sit on opposite sides of a couch, take our shoes and socks off and basically, play 'footsie' together. We'd do this all the time, even if other people were around! We'd share a piece of gum, one of us would chew it a while and then give it to the other.

    I had some other friends I'd play box or karate with. In college, I'd box with this guy, basically get turned on and then we'd take a shower. One night the shower room was so crowded there was only one shower head left. We decided not to wait and got under it together and showered... The other guys teased us.....


    More later..
     
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    Dunno why, but that struck me as a very 'sex and the city' moment lol. But anyway, yet another beautiful story!
     
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    My mom took a bad fall and broke her femur in four places and needed surgery in February of 2009. She was taken to emergency in an ambulance. I was visiting a buddy when I got the call about her being in the hospital. For a minute I couldn't think straight but wanted to see her as soon as I could. I told my friend what had happened. He hugged me and sort of held me in his arms for a few minutes. It was very emotionally and sensually intense for me. He could tell I was upset. Then he suggested that he take me to the hospital in his truck. Anyway he drove me there, waited for me while I checked on my mom's condition, and eventually drove me back to my place to get my own wheels. The whole thing took about 2 hours, and he was totally supportive and sweet the whole time. He hugged me again and kissed me on the cheek. I called him later to update him on her condition and he was so understanding. He even asked me to give her his love. I've never forgotten all he did for me. He was totally calm, strong and together the whole time. A real friend.
     
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    Oh my god, what a sweet story JustSomeZombie and so nicely written!

     
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    I masturbated with my friend (we were watching a porno). It wasn't sexy though. We were using sofa cushions to hide our shame. Well, he was. I was using the sofa :p
     
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    Thanks for the thread and opening story OP
    Nothing finer to get the emotions started than Human Interest stories despite the lpsg format.
    We all have them with experience as we age, just a real important part of life i geuss
    2 that come to mind for myself similar, could be termed Sexual of nature, but not really.

    20 odd years ago in Sydney the BEST job i had was interviewing guys 'str out of jail'
    Went into all the NSW Jails interviewed them, back to the Team and we discussed if they would be compatible with the 30 odd others we had in several outreach homes
    Anyway this 23 yr odd Big guy was permitted
    Long story short, i found him in his room one day, sobbing his heart out..as in really sobbing, trying not to because of our in built in male macho crap.
    I could have left him, but my job as support inclined me to query things
    Seems he had a letter in his hand, gave it to me to read, and it was from an aunty who informed him ( by letter) that his dearly beloved G,mother ( who had brought him up from a kid), had died a year or so back ( he was inside from a teen quite a few years for a relatively minor crime)
    THE ASSHOLES ( talking remnants of his family) had not even let him know..nor attempted to get him day release to attemd hi G,mums funeral
    He had just got out, was with us and was hoping to go back and live with her..

    I could have said 'tuff shit man' walked out and left him to it, but nature of the job and why i was employed, empathy etc, chose to ... like yr saviour OP place an arm around the BIG guy ( who could have punched my life out) and hugged him, the sobbing waves comming from his body i will never forget, he hugged me back and there was a moment i felt something he probably got from his GMum only perhaps, and no one else, certainly not in prison.
    Held him for more than several minutes till he wanted to break away.
    enuf
    enz

    he left us the next day, just dissapeared...who knows'
    No need to speculate on my part, we in our job had to harden up as well unfortunately.

    other story as recent as the Christchurch earthquake several months ago, but will leave that for a few days
     
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    I dunno why I'm gonna tell this......

    I work out 3 nights a week with some guys from a band I do some work with that live near by. Now the band is 5 guys but they have sort of a roadie/merchandise seller/tag along. His name is chad, sweet guy, SUPER quiet, small and so shy its almost painful to have a full 3 sentence conversation cause of how awkward he is, and being SOMEHOW chad managed to wind up in this bunch of pot smoking, hard drinking, crude ignorant metal heads his whole life. Any chance of him breaking out of his shell died long ago, some time around the point where they would get groupies to more or less rape him with their mouths while he stood there limp with his hands over his face.

    I talk enough for 2 people so I like things that listen, and I think he likes me cause I'm not always saying the most childish comments or doing the foulest things possible..... And frankly cause I think he knows I know he's so far in the closet he should probably call himself a fag while reading muscle magazines eating a pop cicle in a room full of shirt less guys. (Seriously, in this bunch they would drive him into a whore house till he liked pantara or just gave up and hung himself) but it'd take These guys having half a brain cell between em so he remains clear of a sexual reassignment camp...... But the kid looks lonely all the time, and has to be in hell. So I stay late a lot and share a room with him on trips so he doesn't feel like he's in an m night shamalagn movie for a week at a time.


    One night, here about 3 months back I made em all go to the gym to get pumped up for the show the next night. Now, I've said many times I have strong feelings about the uncomfortable vibe SOME guys can cause in the locker/shower room and how disrespectful it can be. This includes sophomoric idiots just as much as it dose men looking to use it as an excuse to gawk. So I wound up staying for a sauna with 2 of the guys in the band and chad. He stared straight at the floor and for the first time since I met him seemed uneasy. I was in conversation with the other 2 guys and took a while to put it together but one of the other 2 guys, the rythem guitar player, was sitting on a towel but naked. I spent 20 mins drawing attention from chad until they got out leaving us there. And he sat quiet waiting for a reaction from me until he heard them exit the locker area.

    I heard a noise and looked over at him in mid wale as he busted out crying. He kept saying he was sorry, I still didn't know what exactly the problem was but slid over next to him and told him it was ok and asked what was wrong, he shuddered and then it hit me.... Well.... One would have flopped... The other maybe poked.... But joking aside I realized I was nude save for shower shoes after sliding across the bench, and granted he hid it well, he had a ROCK hard penis, painfully I imagine, under 2 towels and squeezed purple between his tiny little legs.

    Before I could even think on how to address that I noticed he had turned redder than his hair from sitting curled up and still under those towels for more than 30 mins, and crying wasn't helping. I jumped up tuRned the heat off and grabbed water. I told him to sit back and sip it. He actually turned redder when I pushed his shoulders back.... Either from the spring action that lifted both his towels or from my own appendage that (if you sauna you know) waged like a circumcised sweaty tail during that panic.

    I am straight.... So straight I am not afraid of my balls slapping another guys in a DP, or to be flattered by a gay man telling me what hed like to do to me or even let a curious straight hold my penis out of curiosity...... Not something I look for but its no different than shaking hands, so it wasn't even an option to do anything other than sit down in this wooden box with this terrified closeted kid, I put my arm around him and talked to him.

    ........ The title said something about sexy..... Well.... Ok.... We sat and talked and I did the best I could to make sure he knew that they didn't notice, I wouldn't tell and didn't care. He was calmed down till he went to tuck his erection downward and it actually slid out..... He shreaked like a rabbit and shot up to the corner face in hands (don't know if he thought I wasn't sure he was hard) I just stood up.... Didn't turn so my penis wouldn't touch him just sat him back down LOL even when he had been staring at mine long enough to finish his bottle of water....... AND sit between his legs.... Sorta tapping it on the bench.......also making his little erection tap back and forth against his wrists..... And finally when they only thing red and glistening was the thing he kept buried in terry cloth, I put my arm around him and told him he had nothing to worry about. He hugged me from the side and said "thanks man".

    I saw the place was empty so I walked naked to the shower and....... To this day, I dunno if was cause I liked being so.... Whatever, to chad. Or if it was ego cause I am twice his size and bigger limp than he is hard..... Or just because this was the first time hed been even slightly safe enough to even get caught looking, let alone what he was trying to make look like VERY thorough washing a few showers over....... I gave my penis a couples pulls till it stood up decent enough...... And turned around and rubbed out the quickest respectable white shower I could.... Rang the last bit out in a slow pull from the base to the tip, turned the water of and winked........ And leaving chad in his first moment of sexual identity I rounded the corner and with no towel a smile on my face and cock so hard and heavy it looked like sword backward on a belt waving back and forth at the 2 old men standing in the locker area getting dressed for the early morning class.............. That's the thanks I got... Cause chad has not mentioned it or step foot in that sauna since
     
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    I spent a lot of time with Drew, my best friend from 7th grade until now. I'd hang out at his house all the time; his parents were like a 2nd mom and dad to me.

    He was very good looking & had lots of girl friends. (We double-dated a lot). He was 6'2, 160#, tight muscled, long brown hair, blue eyes, nicely hung. My younger sisters were always trying to ask him out on dates.

    If it got late, we'd sleep in his bed. We'd both strip naked, get in, snuggle, then fall asleep. Never any sex involved, though lots of erections. It was all very sweet. We masturbated together a few times, though he said he didn't "like it much."

    One time, I walked in on him having sex on his bed with his girl friend. His parents and brothers were out doing something. He didn't notice, and neither did she. I quietly closed the door.
     
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    Supposedly straight guys on Sambag's Blog. Discuss.
     

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    Thanks fr reminding me, not that it really matters haha

    Anyway ChCh (Christchurch New Zealand)

    A Friend brought over to the Island i live on a young (Cute) 20 something French Boy
    For a break and a Holiday before he journeyed back to his Home Country, after 6 months or so touring NZ

    He happened to be touring the South Island and on the day of the Major Quake, that was his chosen day to arrive in and have a look around the City
    He had JUST gone into the Cathedral, saw what he thought was a 2$ fee to climb the staircase, (but with it being 8$ - i MAY have that part wrong) he decided NO he would not climb up the Tower part (or whatever it is)

    Anyway he had JUST in a matter of seconds walked OUT of the Cathedral, and the Quake Hit.....
    it was assumed many had persihed when that Cathedral part collapsed/turned out No One had died thru that
    This French boy would no doubt have been the Sole Casualty, and no one would have known for possibly weeks.....

    Getting back to the other post of mine, my immeadiate feeling was to GRAB him (when he and my NZ friend relayed the story to me) and give him a big consoling HUG...but i refrained, there goes that Bullshit Male Macho thing............... then a few days later i realized, nnnnnaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh French folk are really pretty touchy/feely sort of people (i think) so overall, it May well have gone down OK.

    Plus, haha i would have had the benefit of a warm youthful french bod to hug for however many seconds haha ...selfish me..

    A little bit of Maori Aroha ( Love) emanating from my Bod to his, after hearing such a close call with Death, in a Foreign land as well, would probably live on within him for his entire life.
    end ha
    enz

    Thanks Op for thre thread'
     
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    Shortly after finishing college I travelled around a bit. I stopped in on some friends, a couple, who had graduated a year earlier. They had rented a big old house and another couple who were mutual friends were living with them temporarily along with another mutual straight male friend staying there briefly. Hey, what's one more? They invited me to stay on a while. I had no idea where I would sleep. After partying lightly for a few hours it got to be sleepy time and I was told to sleep with the single guy in a double bed. So we went to the bedroom and he just stripped naked and got into bed. So did I. end of story. He left the next day.
    Several years later in the same city another couple I knew was moving to a new apartment. I had a van at the time and offered to help. After most of a day of loading, driving, and unloading we started getting ready to have some dinner, beers, etc... I had been told beforehand that I was welcome to shower after all this work so I had a change of clothes. There were probably ten people in the apartment. several more were waiting to shower. Wife was fixing dinner. So the husband asks if I am ready to take a shower and I say "sure." So he accompanies me to the master bedroom, gets out some towels, shows me the big two shower head shower and starts taking off his clothes and asks me to join him. We take a shower. He asks me put soap on his back. How I didn't get a full erection is beyond me. We finish showering, dry off, get dressed, eat food, drink beers, smoke pot, etc... End of story.
     
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