Here's the scene: the wife and I are alone for the night, my daughter is on a sleepover. We're getting warm and cozy and sensual all night. We finally lie down to bed, early. She reaches over and puts her hand on my erect penis...for the first time all night. I moan with pleasure. What does she do next? She starts singing a Xmas carol. Chestnuts roasting on an open fire..... I immediatelly lost my hardon. Lost my interest. ????? I asked her, she said it was "being sexy" on her part. She was into it, she said. Girls -- what do you think? Guys, if your're reading, how would you respond to situation?