Shallow?

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I've come to realize that I only like guys with all/the majority of the below:

Good bodies
Big cocks
Cute faces

Does that make me a shallow gay man?
 

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You might not be shallow, but you are in competition with lots of other guys who are all looking for the same thing--and there are likely fewer guys who fit the bill than are doing the looking. A good way to prove you aren't shallow is to see if you would honestly consider someone who doesn't fit all of your criteria. If he has a decent body, but a smaller dick, would you still go for it? If he has a horse cock, but a face to match,would you still be interested?
 

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everyone has their 'face value' standards, but that has no bearing on the reality of people on the inside.... i've met all kinds of guys who match my face value standards who are total assholes, and they become extremely unattractive once i get to know that part of them.... in contrast, i've met all kinds of guys who don't necessarily match my face value standards who become the most beautiful people because they are genuinely good, nice, caring people..... it's quite remarkable how a person's inside can transform their outside once you take the time to really 'look'.... looking is not the same as mere seeing.... just like the way touching is not like feeling or hearing is not like listening....
 

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We all have our (likes). I come from a somewhat conservative upbringing where I was taught to see the good in people regardless of how they look. I have been told things like, looks fade. . people sometimes get so they cannot perform sexually as people age. . So. . while I have my set of (likes), I do not discount, people who are attracted to me. I try to give people a chance regardless of dick size, looks, or body.
 

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Depends what you mean by 'like'.

'Like' to fuck: You're fine. This is basically what we all want.

'Like' to date: It's what you're into, I agree with you that there's little point in pursuing someone that doesn't make you feel horny every time you look at them. If you're good looking, you deserve the same. However, if you have those things but not the personality to match then they're as useless as a slipper at Glastonbury.

'Like' to like: Mega shallow. Physical attributes should be meaningless in terms of friendship.
 

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My b/f isn't the most handsome, or the tallest(I'm much taller than he), or slender in shape (I happen to be) but he has a good heart, he's kind enough to take me in, and he cares for me, sexually there isn't anything I deny him. Best part, he has the same sexual stamina as me, and he is beautifully hung.