D_Martin van Burden
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It isn't a big deal. I have a queen sized bed and I've had a couple of my straight guy friends crash in it. It was simply because (a) they were too drunk to drive home, (b) the bed's comfortable and the floor isn't so much, and (c) they're secure enough to take one side of the bed and I'll take the other. Never mind that I'm not trying to reach over and spoon 'em. If you don't make it a sexual issue, then it won't be a sexual issue, and as a matter of practicality, your friends probably wouldn't care that much.
Of course you indicated that you're attracted (physically, I guess?) to some of your male friends, and that's just something you're going to have to sort through on your own. You know that if you make a move and if it isn't reciprocated, then it's going to be really uncomfortable for the both of you. On the flip side, if they're interested in some physical contact, then they're going to give you a sign; just watch for it.
Of course you indicated that you're attracted (physically, I guess?) to some of your male friends, and that's just something you're going to have to sort through on your own. You know that if you make a move and if it isn't reciprocated, then it's going to be really uncomfortable for the both of you. On the flip side, if they're interested in some physical contact, then they're going to give you a sign; just watch for it.