Sharing a fleshlight with a friend

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So I've always thought of my roommate as very straight. We tell eacch other everything and we're very close but we've never touched each other sexually. We've jacked off in the same room but never come close to touching (sit on opposite sides of the couch watching porn), and he doesn't know I've done things with guys. To my knowledge, he never has, and I know he's never had sex with a girl.

I've used a fleshlight before but never in front of him. The other day when we jacked off together, I brought it out. He asked if he could try it out, and I let him. The whole session, we would take 20 or so pumps and pass it back and forth. I never moved it up and down on his dick or vice versa. We didn't cum in it as the whole reason of the session was a competition to see who could cum farther distance.

Don't you think sharing something like a fleshlight where you take turns using it is pretty damn close to being an intimate sexual experience with someone? I must admit I've always had a crush on him, but he's my best friend and wpuld hate to ruin something like the closeness we have.

It just seems very intimate that our dicks were going in and out of the same hole without a condom and he was cool with it.

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sounds like a great bonding experience. i bet he'd be pissed if he knew you were telling us about it here. ;) it's almost similar to mmf or even mmm threesome, as it's just a hole, so although not necessarily gay, yes, definitely sexual.
 

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I agree with everyone, that's a pretty hot story. I would not call it a gay experience but definitely a intimate one.
 

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Sounds like you guys have a great friendship, and yes, that's a very intimately sexual experience. I wonder, though, why he doesn't know you're into guys too?
 

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next time, say "this will be cool, trust me"... then instead of handing him the fleshlight, take control and work it up and down on his cock. take it slow, it's better to have a friend (and maybe a JO bud like u got already) than anything more.
 

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You're lucky you get to have a jo bud who happens to be your best friend. This is the ultimate form of male bonding, and you're overthinking it because you have feelings for him. To him this is just taking your normal jerkoff sessions to the next level.

If you choose to try anything more just be careful what you do. You risk losing your jo bud or even your bff. Just go with the flow and like @str8budchgo said, trying using it on him next time...see what happens.
 

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Totally think that in the heat of a great beat off session you using it on him would not be an issue. Just man up and do it. then it won't be long till you get over any handfuls and totally stroke each other. oh wait....you'll suddenly want to wear a dress, out a now in your hair and marry the guy - you better not. *rolls eyes

Great bro bonding.
 

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I think you should use it on him next time. Pull out a stopwatch and play a game to see who lasts longer... by the end of it, who cares if you lose! ;)

I dunno man! It sounds so risky. I would be devastated to lose him as a friend and I don't want him to be weirded out.

I THINK it would end up being ok, even after he shot me down (if he did), but I dunno.

Every time we do it, things get a little progressively farther. But I mean sharing the fleshlight is by far the biggest step.

It started out just being in the same room watching the same porn. Then we'd talk about the porn as we watched it the next time. Then the time before he BLATANTLY started at me for more than just a couple seconds as I jacked off (I noticed out of the corner of my eye he was staring, it's not like we were locking eyes watching each other). Then last time we were sitting 3 feet away from each other taking turns fucking a fleshlight and seeing who could cum the farthest.

I dunno. This has me all messed up in the head!
 

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I dunno man! It sounds so risky. I would be devastated to lose him as a friend and I don't want him to be weirded out.

I THINK it would end up being ok, even after he shot me down (if he did), but I dunno.

Every time we do it, things get a little progressively farther. But I mean sharing the fleshlight is by far the biggest step.

It started out just being in the same room watching the same porn. Then we'd talk about the porn as we watched it the next time. Then the time before he BLATANTLY started at me for more than just a couple seconds as I jacked off (I noticed out of the corner of my eye he was staring, it's not like we were locking eyes watching each other). Then last time we were sitting 3 feet away from each other taking turns fucking a fleshlight and seeing who could cum the farthest.

I dunno. This has me all messed up in the head!

Hah!
As your sharing gets closer, you might be able to find a moment that when you're passing it to him, you conveniently shove it down his dick instead. Perhaps you can do it in a joking way ;)

But yea baby steps, and in the end, you decide what you're comfortable with!
 
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Be patient, if he is curious to go further let him make the move.

i wholeheartedly agree with this here. and when it happens, stay cool bro, you are still gonna prolly have to be reserved about your actions, as in, don't get too comfortable. just follow his lead. good luck. :3822733875wackit: