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Ya, its a common request-- I have been close to the experience (I wont explain further details) and it didnt really cause any problems but I was a bit tipsy, if done with the right volunteer I think it is a fun experience for you and your hubby.
 
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By what you are saying, it sounds like your husband has a small penis like I do. You have a beautiful body!!! I know that if I were married to you that I would love to watch you try to handle a huge cock! It is quite common for small endowed men to want to watch their woman with a guy with a big cock.

Totally untrue. And laughable at that. It is not normal for a man to want to see another, more well endowed, man to screw his woman. That screams issues. What is common is for him to wish he himself had a larger penis because in his mind he believes, and probably correctly, that he could blow your mind in bed. But to watch someone, and someone more endowed? no. that's not normal. he doesn't think he's pleasing you in bed and has probably thought that for many, many years.
 

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Totally untrue. And laughable at that. It is not normal for a man to want to see another, more well endowed, man to screw his woman. That screams issues. What is common is for him to wish he himself had a larger penis because in his mind he believes, and probably correctly, that he could blow your mind in bed. But to watch someone, and someone more endowed? no. that's not normal. he doesn't think he's pleasing you in bed and has probably thought that for many, many years.


agreed.
saying that just because i dont think its totally normal. its also not that bad or particulary weird. its just a sexual fantasy. not one i share but i can understand.
you have to do whats right for you. its good that you are willing to be at least open to these ideas but if you dont want to go for it then im sure your husband will accept that.
 

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I guess it's whatever your comfortable with since he suggested it. I feel it would ruin the intimacy of any sex afterwards. Its kinda a special thing; being alone together with your partner.
 

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He has always said how good I suck dick and fondle. He says it would be exciting to watch my talents on another

Plop him in front of a mirror and suck his cock.
Put a wig on him.
Looks like another guy.

Problem solved!
 

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I find myself wondering why he wants to see you do this. What about it turns him on so much?

Also, even if you are good at oral now, if you haven't blown a big cock before, you will find that a lot of the skill you thought you had goes out the window and you have to change some things. It took some practice for me to adjust my technique to cope with my husband's thickness -- my first blowjobs on him really weren't something all that exciting to watch. Just some food for thought.

Edit: now it occurs to me that all the newness and freshness and fumbling may be exciting to your husband, even if the experience isn't all that great for the hung guy. So technique may not really matter.

just a question i was wondering, what thickness are we talking that made you switch technique, because i got teeth before and i know i aint that thick! are you talking 6inch or 7inches thick?
 

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Your husband's fantasy is completely normal. I have the same with my wife. She is not very sexually active though so it will never happen (we have sex 3-4 times a year).

If your hubby wants you to do this I say go for it. You may enjoy it and it will make him very happy.
 

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Husband has talked for years about his desire to watch me Jack off or give a BJ to a hung guy. No sex. Sort of on the fence. Thoughts???

If you truly love your husband I would definitely stay away from it. These types of scenarios definitely have a likelihood to end the relationship. Guys are very jealous by nature and if you truly enjoy yourself with a hung guy and you can't hide your pleasure then your relationship dynamic will change for sure.
 

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Guys are very jealous by nature and if you truly enjoy yourself with a hung guy and you can't hide your pleasure then your relationship dynamic will change for sure.

I think you're right most of the time, but not always. There are some guys who truly live for their women's happiness/pleasure, and would enjoy seeing them satisfied in that way.
 

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Husband has talked for years about his desire to watch me Jack off or give a BJ to a hung guy. No sex. Sort of on the fence. Thoughts???
Can the guy that you jack off or give a bj to cum on your face or tits?
 

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As a married person, I think you are right. Not that I haven't thought about it once or twice tho. Even though it might seen okay for both to agree to this in the beginning, the aftershocks could be very bad for the marriage.

If you truly love your husband I would definitely stay away from it. These types of scenarios definitely have a likelihood to end the relationship. Guys are very jealous by nature and if you truly enjoy yourself with a hung guy and you can't hide your pleasure then your relationship dynamic will change for sure.