Not exactly a Hotwife & not a cuckold I guess just a sharer! So my wife & I have begun opening our sexlife to a third person normally a MFM combo & looking for the right FMF. Now can someone clarify this for me.
I originally considered her a hotwife because we are bringing a younger bigger dick then mine into the bed room but now that I am reading more about it I find that a hotwife is normally when the female goes out alone and dates (intimately of course) other guys without the husband present. That is something we dont do as we like to be involved together & also although we trust the guy enough to have sex with together we are not sure about alone in a house or hotel , what if it gets to much or she wants to stop due to not feeling right or what ever it gives us the safety that as a rather large (62 230lbs & trained to hurt people but very comfortable & easy going) husband I can make sure if it needs to stop it will. We all 3 share eachother , mainly we focus on her but I have never had another guy or dick around so we experiment with other things as well & I dont know if we would fall into the Hotwife category.
Then there is the cuckold life style where the guy is basically there to be insulted & treated mean. Now this is interesting to me as I enjoy watching this type of porn & when we skype with large guys we do the cuckold talk. My wife will be like oh I wish I had that huge cock in me to stretch me out, look at this little dick I have to deal with. She never initiates cuckold conversation I do & she goes along with it & the guys tend to enjoy it also so why not, but when we meet a guy (only 1 guy so far twice) we are all very friendly & all take care of each other. I even sucked him & he me just a whole big 3 way. In person I would not like someone talking to me derogatorily or insulting. Honestly it is even hard to get hard a few times watching my wife kiss or suck him as it is all new & kinda weird at first like no she mine as it has been programed for so long and as I watch and we join together I stiffen up because (I go in first to feel her tight then he goes in then I go back to feel her stretched past my length as im pretty thick but only 5 in hard he is 8) but in the long run I started this & know she wanted it really bad and it makes me horny to think about him satisfying her better then I can as I know there are women who can satisfy me better (she has horrible gag reflex & cant to anal) so we want each other to have it all. Not that he makes her orgasm from sex unless her clit is being played with just like when it is the two of us so its not that he makes her orgasm from better sex but he is kinda the total package for her 21 8in long hair & cute if not a lil fem and I know that turns her on which turns me on. I have no problem licking her clit as he pounds her so she can get to the big O but the key is we all work together with everyone happy so we cant be considered a cuckold situation.
I was thinking maybe the term swingers right now but that would be another couple which is not what we want , we enjoy having just one other person M or F to come in & satisfy they other if not both in ways we can not.
I originally considered her a hotwife because we are bringing a younger bigger dick then mine into the bed room but now that I am reading more about it I find that a hotwife is normally when the female goes out alone and dates (intimately of course) other guys without the husband present. That is something we dont do as we like to be involved together & also although we trust the guy enough to have sex with together we are not sure about alone in a house or hotel , what if it gets to much or she wants to stop due to not feeling right or what ever it gives us the safety that as a rather large (62 230lbs & trained to hurt people but very comfortable & easy going) husband I can make sure if it needs to stop it will. We all 3 share eachother , mainly we focus on her but I have never had another guy or dick around so we experiment with other things as well & I dont know if we would fall into the Hotwife category.
Then there is the cuckold life style where the guy is basically there to be insulted & treated mean. Now this is interesting to me as I enjoy watching this type of porn & when we skype with large guys we do the cuckold talk. My wife will be like oh I wish I had that huge cock in me to stretch me out, look at this little dick I have to deal with. She never initiates cuckold conversation I do & she goes along with it & the guys tend to enjoy it also so why not, but when we meet a guy (only 1 guy so far twice) we are all very friendly & all take care of each other. I even sucked him & he me just a whole big 3 way. In person I would not like someone talking to me derogatorily or insulting. Honestly it is even hard to get hard a few times watching my wife kiss or suck him as it is all new & kinda weird at first like no she mine as it has been programed for so long and as I watch and we join together I stiffen up because (I go in first to feel her tight then he goes in then I go back to feel her stretched past my length as im pretty thick but only 5 in hard he is 8) but in the long run I started this & know she wanted it really bad and it makes me horny to think about him satisfying her better then I can as I know there are women who can satisfy me better (she has horrible gag reflex & cant to anal) so we want each other to have it all. Not that he makes her orgasm from sex unless her clit is being played with just like when it is the two of us so its not that he makes her orgasm from better sex but he is kinda the total package for her 21 8in long hair & cute if not a lil fem and I know that turns her on which turns me on. I have no problem licking her clit as he pounds her so she can get to the big O but the key is we all work together with everyone happy so we cant be considered a cuckold situation.
I was thinking maybe the term swingers right now but that would be another couple which is not what we want , we enjoy having just one other person M or F to come in & satisfy they other if not both in ways we can not.
