Sharing Wives or Girl Friends

[D_Bill_F_Sail]

Id love to share my GF with another guy. I want to see her fully satisfied by another more hung guy. Ive mentioned it before and shes asked who id want the guy to be so i know shes interested but think she feels id be upset. Im in vegas and if anyone wants to chat send me a message. Im also bi which she doesnt know so thats another thing i need to figure out how to bring up.

 

[Uncutpete]

The fact that she has a little fling now and again and yet chooses to be with me is the second part that boosts my sometimes weakening ego. I always get oral to completion (she usually does not swallow) blow after every time and it always seems to kick her sex drive from above average to high gear for a while too..

This is my experience too most of the time. For what ever reasons, a couple's experience with me tends to improve their own sex in major ways.

 

[D_glc01gvc]

Hello all. My fiance and I have had every threesome except one where she takes on the guy. One with her best girl-friend, which ended the friendship. One with a male escort where i was fucked silly by his giant white cock. And one with one with a gay guy we met on the internet.

The time with the escort he was bi, so i tried to persuade her to join in but she had too much fun watching him and I, which I enjoyed showing off. A LOT!

She seems very excited about it, but goes back and fourth frequently. She claims that looks alone are not enough to bed her. She needs to have a connection with some one first. She needs a spark to get her going.

 

[libralover4u2]

I really enjoy watching my GF being pleasured by other guys, and gals. She feels the same way about me, including me playing with guys.

I came on here seeking guys with large cocks to play with us. Mine is average size and I did not realize how much she enjoyed large cocks until we had an MFM three years ago with a guy who had a 9X6" cock. Before that, any cock larger than mine hurt her. But, he showed us how, if she climaxed first, she loosened up and could take his big cock. It ended up as a four hour fun filled time for both of us. She still cites that MFM as her most memorable sexual experience.

With us, swinging is a "together" experience, and the act of helping each other have fullfilling sexual pleasure has tied us closer together. However, we seek guys who are respectful to both of us, and avoid the "bull" type of guy. We do not play with anyone who seems like they may act or say degrading things to either of us.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

^Other than the above. If all about the woman's pleasure and fulfilling her desires (as opposed to acting as a fuck toy or proxy), why not more stories about the female partner initiating these relationships or leaning poly and sharing husband with other women/men?

 

[helgaleena]

The point is, it has to be a mutual decision by a couple to accept a third. The OP is not part of a couple; instead he is looking to find couples that want to talk about it. There are some people here at LPSG who are both, in stable relationships and 'swingers' who open their sex lives to third and fourth partners.

I would say that I personally have experienced 3somes in my youth that didn't work so well because they were spontaneous but with relative strangers. The chemistry is very hit and miss, and the 'fully satisfied' refrain of the OP is never guaranteed if you are uncertain about everyone involved.

My life now is that I have more than one 'steady', and the first one actually introduced me to the second one. But we do not have regular 3ways simply because both of them prefer to be top. It has to be a very special, 'holiday' occasion. And I myself do not require vaginal penetration for my 'fully satisfied'; I am not in that particular rut.

 

[Thirdlegproduction]

I try but cannot understand the concept of sharing a woman while being present.

I get mad at even the thought of another man present in my bedroom.
When I'm with a woman, she is mine and mine alone and she is to crave for me alone at that moment.

I do have double standards with this concept though as I wouldn't mind being shared by several women.

 

[rtg]

Yeah...I wouldn't want to be with a man who wanted to share me! He should wanna kill any guy who wanted to touch me haha. That said, I've always fantasised about having a 3some with another woman...but he wouldn't be allowed to touch her haha. So maybe it would more be like a 2.5some...or I would do stuff with the chick while he watched. Dunno if that's hypocritical or not but meh lol.

 

[D_bmvnfhd]

I like that my guy wants to share me. Its not about fucking someone else for me, its more about knowing it drives him crazy to be able to watch me take a huge cock. Its a perspective he doesn't get to see when he is doing it himself lol

 

[drabman]

I have had a mfm and found it to be fun and enjoyable..She was about 150...

Bloody hell. I confess I've fancied 70 year-olds before (Linda Gray and Honor Blackman) but that's a bridge too far for me. Was she still breathing?

 

[mentaldish]

This is my experience too most of the time. For what ever reasons, a couple's experience with me tends to improve their own sex in major ways.

I'd love to see you with my wife. I've been sharing her with others since before we got married.

 

[sammann]

My wife's prior three lovers before me were all tremendously endowed. I almost always give her an orgasm but she still finds it less then satsifying. As she likes to put it, she knows it's as far as it will go so she settles for a fizzler instead of waiting for the New Years Eve Grand finaly that I can't give her.

We had discussed and fantasized about inviting one of her prior lovers to join us, and she use to get so wet just talking about it. Then one day we were out and we ran into two school mates of her's. After a few drinks one left to go home, we invited the other to our hotel room for a drink, the next thing I knew I spent the night watching my wife with him. He was slightly larger then me although considerably thicker. They went at it several times throughout the night and each orgasm he gave her made me feel inadequate in comparison.

The next morning we checked out and got in the car to return home, and the first thing I said to her was "I lost count of how many Grand Finaly you had last night". She laughed and said not a single one, those were more like a really good ametuer in his backyard. After feeling his much thicker cock it made her realize how much she missed the bigger cocks and it was four nights later that for the first time I realized how big her "tremendously endowed" was and what grand finaly orgasms looked like.

 

[Uncutpete]

The point is, it has to be a mutual decision by a couple to accept a third. The OP is not part of a couple; instead he is looking to find couples that want to talk about it. There are some people here at LPSG who are both, in stable relationships and 'swingers' who open their sex lives to third and fourth partners.

The chemistry is very hit and miss, and the 'fully satisfied' refrain of the OP is never guaranteed if you are uncertain about everyone involved.

I'll dispute Helgaleena on both counts. First, I AM part of a couple, a long marriage. Both of us have sex outside of the marriage. I have my couples, she has other guys. I always practice what I preach. I simply don't feel the desire to be there with her partners, although I have at times with new guys. The relationship works excellently.

To the second point -- look, everyone is different, both men and women, as exemplified by the different responses to this thread. Of course, sex is most often better with my regular couples, where we all know each other well. The better I know her body the better the sex, by and large. Of course, with some people there is a huge charge to be with a stranger, and one whose talents they seek. In that case, the first night can be incredible.

 

[Uncutpete]

I'm giving this a bump to see if anyone wants to join in, ask questions, share experiences.

 

[upone]

I've never been into the cuckold fetish, nor into swapping as such. Over the years I've been involved in some complicated relationships. Ages ago I had a friend-with-benefits from high school; we were both still in college. I was working as a bartender, 4 p.m. to 2 a.m. I'd get home, fuck her a couple of times, go to sleep. She got up about 7:00 a.m., went to her part-time job. Meanwhile, her "regular" boyfriend worked 6:00 a.m. to noon. She would go to his place, fuck a couple times, come back to our place about 2:00 p.m., do me before work, then spend the evening with him. We both knew what was going on, and we did a few MFM 3-somes, but none of us really liked the 3-somes.

 

[spicy_lena]

I think there are a lot of variations of the "shared wife" lifestyle. Cuckoldry is just part of it, and not something I've been involved with. I am a "hotwife" but my husband is always in charge and calling the shots. He is a true alpha and enjoys sharing me as a show of dominance ... and yes I love that.

We've played with quite a few guys, mostly black and bigger then my hubby (who is big enough for any woman) and, no matter how great the sex with the BBCs is, the sex with my man - he always adds the last load to my pussy after a three some session - is the best, period.

It's complicated, and what works for us is unique. I don't judge other people's kink.

 

[Channelwood]

I share my gf, but it's not out of a desire to indulge in a kink of mine. It's out of a desire for her to be satisfied sexually. My work schedule and other conflicts mean that we can only be together about once a week, and she is a far more sexual girl than that. We talked about her needs and she asked if I'd be OK with her having a "hall pass" with a single select guy. I'm all for her having what she wants and needs in life and would feel very selfish forbidding her to be with another guy, when I can't fulfill her--I simply can't be around enough.

So I prefer that the attitude and decision should be a cooperative and joint decision based on the circumstances and needs of the people involved, and not artificially imposed.

 

[LovinThickWomen]

I like hearing about your story. The situation with your ex-wife is not uncommon. The wife of one of the couples I am presently seeing refuses to let her husband have another woman, although she is free to see me and anyone else she wants.

This is my situation. She doesn't like to share. She's tried and I have played very little and there was not sex involved and she couldn't handle the jealousy. I prefer the naughty fun to continue and don't care if I sleep with another person again. So we go this route.

 

[Sirramm]

I've always been with woman who are open to me sharing them. For me it is the ulitmate turn on to share the woman I am with. Watching her suck and fuck another guy and offer me her sloppy seconds just spins me and I can't get enough.

My last girlfriend use to have a guy she played with at work and use to come home full of his cum and after I went down on her while she told me how he fucked her I would fill her myself. We both loved it!!!

 

[Wrat]

I once was dating a girl in college who went home for the Christmas holiday and made it clear to me that it was okay for me to "date" her roommate while she was gone. I did, but the roommate wasn't half the woman the girlfriend was.