Sharing your wife?

[ronin001]

I do not see it as something I would wish in a relationship.

I have been a member here for a while and yours is not the first thread or first instance of a couple looking to expand their sexual activities. For some members it worked well; but for many many many other members the activity took on a life of its own and they were left with a relationship in worse shape than before they started sharing.

What ever you choose, good luck.

 

[bigbucky]

we had the opportunity to swap with this other couple that we knew. I was willing, the other guy's wife was a beautiful woman and I had been interested in her when I was single and she was single. we had even hung out a few evenings together. I was surprised that my wife did not say "no" right away as I knew she was not into this. she considered it for about an hour and then when the husband came over to get our decision, she told him "no thanks". he said something about her missing out on a big cock, and she told him that I had the big cock that she would be fucking later. we found out later that they were both cheating on each other and she had 2 other lovers.

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

I cant imagine sharing my wife with anyone else . . . I've had threesomes when I was single; and I have NO cuckolding fears of a bigger guy (that would be difficult to find) . . . there just seems something less than faithful to it to me . . .

 

[CarlaM]

Thank you all for your comments. It is a very interesting fantasy. I was concerned when he first raised this with me, but it doesn't seem uncommon. I will say some of the videos we've watched together have been very hot.

 

[CarpeD1em]

Ive been to life style clubs and ill say its maybe more common than alot of people may think. But i think alot of people are to afraid to tell their partner. Have i been with other mens wifes yes do i want to give my wife to another man nope not even a little

 

[nedstark]

This is my #1 fantasy... I'm 40 and have been married for 8 years. My wife is pretty laid back... she was quite promiscuous in her early years. I've had 50 - 70 women... probably 1/2 were escorts (in my 20s and early 30s).

A few years ago I told her that I'm really into gangbang creampies... especially double vag. She was a little taken back but loved that I shared my fantasy with her... then we started talking about it more and more during sex. We'd watched amateur gb porn and she asked me if I'd be interested and I quickly said yes.

I threw out the idea that we could try it when we're on vacation... somewhere far away from home.

But 2 kids and we're getting older and we don't look as good as we once did... and we probably attract the right guys.

I don't want some beer gut slop on my wife. Nor do I want some meathead.

She's also very sensitive about her body after 2 kids... she wants a boob job.

But when we're fucking and she wants me to cum, she starts telling me about her past fucks before I was in the picture. I usually cum in 2 minutes.

 

[amazzzed2]

Definitely my #1 fantasy as well. My wife's ex lover has a huge cock and we talk about it while I touch her clit, and she orgasms like crazy! Unfortunately, so far she is not willing to actually have sex with him again. We have a strong marriage trust eachother, and can talk about anything openly, which are the necessary ingredients to this. This fantasy roleplaying has improved our marriage and our sexual life a lot. I know that we would both enjoy it even more if she would just let go and let it actually happen.

 

[Bardox]

I've never been married, but I have been the "other guy" a number of times in the scenario you are considering. I don't really understand the mentality of a husband that wants this, but it doesn't seem to be uncommon. Seeing how you are with another guy and comparing it to how you are with him maybe? IDK.

Only had one negative reaction. Was a cuckold deal. Things were fine at first, but at some point she had completely forgotten he was there. She stopped talking to him and even acknowledging him when he said something. Found out later that she let me do things to her that she never let him do. She apparently lead him to believe she didn't like rough sex, but when I would spank/slap/choke her a different woman was revealed. He eventually just got dressed and went down stairs to the hotel bar.

So just be conscious of your hubby during your fun time and keep in mind that the other guy is just that. the other guy. He is going away. You will be seeing hubby tomorrow. If you are going to have a threesome, might I suggest bringing some energy drinks along. You will be in constant demand and it can get exhausting.

 

[Markym01]

Recently my husband and I were discussing fantasies and he said one of his longest held fantasies was seeing me with another man (possibly even his friend). I thought this was kind of a strange fantasy, but since he admitted that one to me I've encountered many fellas here who like the idea as well. I was just wondering how common this fantasy is? Is it more of a threesome fantasy? Or a cuckold fantasy? How many have actually followed through and made it reality? How did it happen and who's idea was it to try it? I don't know that I could ever go through with it, but I'm encouraged that so many seem to share my husband's fantasy.

I'm not sure how common it is but I was invited to be the "3rd" in a 3way

How it happened:
We were hanging out at their place and although I don't remember the exact way it transpired all 3 of us did end up in the bedroom

 

[gma26_4521]

I am not interested in sharing. Not judging others. Just not my thang!

 

[Oxnard]

Recently my husband and I were discussing fantasies and he said one of his longest held fantasies was seeing me with another man (possibly even his friend). I thought this was kind of a strange fantasy, but since he admitted that one to me I've encountered many fellas here who like the idea as well. I was just wondering how common this fantasy is? Is it more of a threesome fantasy? Or a cuckold fantasy? How many have actually followed through and made it reality? How did it happen and who's idea was it to try it? I don't know that I could ever go through with it, but I'm encouraged that so many seem to share my husband's fantasy.

Different strokes for different folks. I have nothing against people who like this sort of thing, but it's not for me.

When I was a teenager, I fantasized about the swinger lifestyle. I thought that the relationships swingers had are so unusual and amazing and oddly stable despite the things they did. I was so sure it was the lifestyle for me.

At the ripe old age of 17, I was actually in an open relationship. It wasn't an actual swinging situation, but it was an open relationship. Turns out I hated it. All of it.

Every time I was with another woman, I felt cheap and dirty, like someone who didn't deserve to be loved.

Every time I thought about her being with other men, I got upset. Not jealous. I never get jealous. It just hurt because it meant that the emotional connection we had wasn't what I really wanted.

I didn't say anything to her about how I felt about things because I was young and stupid and getting regular pussy for the first time. Not only was I getting regular sex, but she was older with her own apartment and everything. We could have marathon sex sessions without worrying about parents and I could cook for her and stuff. I was afraid of saying something that would ruin what we had, so I didn't explain my feelings.

She even tried to get me to do threesomes and foursomes with her. I always turned her down. I knew how I felt about sleeping with other women, and I knew how I felt about her sleeping with other men, and I knew I wouldn't like it.

I hope I haven't been a downer. I have nothing against other people who enjoy that sort of thing, and I may even be a little jealous of other people's ability to enjoy that sort of thing, but it's not for me.

 

[twoton]

No threesome experiences for me, although it got close a couple times.

What i do know is that a family member divorced her husband years ago when he pressed her to sleep with his friend.

And my wife sort of admitted to participating in group activities with the guy she was with before we started dating.

I admit it seems like a fun fantasy and I told her about it. She said it's a common fantasy and I'd never be able to handle it in real life. Not that she'd want to at this point in any case. She's probably right about my not handling it.

One time I saw a girlfriend in a bar with another guy and instead of being turned on....if my buddy hadn't have happened to randomly walk in at that moment and pull me out of there and calm me I might very well be posting this from prison. (I since then fully believe that temporary insanity is a reasonable plea)

 

[Jjz1109]

No threesome experiences for me, although it got close a couple times.

What i do know is that a family member divorced her husband years ago when he pressed her to sleep with his friend.

And my wife sort of admitted to participating in group activities with the guy she was with before we started dating.

I admit it seems like a fun fantasy and I told her about it. She said it's a common fantasy and I'd never be able to handle it in real life. Not that she'd want to at this point in any case. She's probably right about my not handling it.

One time I saw a girlfriend in a bar with another guy and instead of being turned on....if my buddy hadn't have happened to randomly walk in at that moment and pull me out of there and calm me I might very well be posting this from prison. (I since then fully believe that temporary insanity is a reasonable plea)

The last paragraph is quite understandable. I'd feel the same. But I think the OP was inquiring how we men would feel about sharing our woman with another dude, presumably in some agreed, planned scenario. Not catching her with another guy.

Since your wife seems to have experienced "group activities" in the past, how would she be with you proposing another woman joining you two? Just looking to help a brother out.

 

[blackhandle]

Personally I could never share my wife with anybody. Not my thing.

 

[Jjz1109]

Personally I could never share my wife with anybody. Not my thing.

Dude, this is so refreshing to hear. I'm with someone right now who may very well be "the one," and I cannot imagine sharing her with anyone.

 

[blackhandle]

Dude, this is so refreshing to hear. I'm with someone right now who may very well be "the one," and I cannot imagine sharing her with anyone.

I just think that if she is "the one", then she should only be for "me". Not knocking anyone who is into wife sharing, but I am far to selfish for that.

 

[Jjz1109]

I just think that if she is "the one", then she should only be for "me". Not knocking anyone who is into wife sharing, but I am far to selfish for that.

Dude, I told her if I leave this planet first, she needs to become a nun! Yep, I am selfish!

 

[Ifuckwives]

My wife and I are swingers, and we both love to see each other getting it on with other people. I have watched my wife with as many men as she has watched me with other women. It's an ego boost knowing that someone else finds you desirable. And to know that your wife or husband can bring so much pleasure to another person feels good.

I have fucked several women while their husband watched, even in the swing community there are a lot of guys that prefer to watch. It's not uncommon for a man to want another man to know how good his wife is in bed and how good she feels. I say if your husband wants you to do it, then do it. Enjoy the life you have. That's what life is all about, having fun and gaining life experience.

A good number of women I have been with have loved that I am much larger cocked than their husband is, and it feels good to be with a woman who has never experienced the type of pleasure you can offer.

 

[1Moretime61]

Really interested . My GF fucks her ex and he cums inside her and then comes to me and we both have incredible orgasms and I wish he knew so he could join. Love her with CUM in her pussy

 

[1Moretime61]

Thank you all for your comments. It is a very interesting fantasy. I was concerned when he first raised this with me, but it doesn't seem uncommon. I will say some of the videos we've watched together have been very hot.

I have shared but not with the LADY I'm now with. We both Love the idea especially if it's her ex.