HotCock007: Actually Sammy my girl is bi curious (she has kissed and more with other females but has never had full on sexuall experiences with other women.) Her reservations about attending swingers parties only concern unwanted attention from other males, and although you may not believe me, this dosnt concern me as I firmly believe that what is good for the goose is good for the gander. The reason that I say that swinging has been mostly my idea is simpley because I was the one to broach the subject, and my wife has admitted that the idea never really entered her head until I suggested it. So Sammy you are not completely right in your analysis of mine, and my girls interest in attending swingers parties, however any experiences good or bad that you would care to reveal would be of great interest to both my wife and I.