She changed her mind about anal sex

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  1. D_Harry_S_Taint

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    Hi all,

    I have a long time partner (having sex for 5 years now with her, quite regularly) and she always refused anal sex with me. She has an ass to die for, so I was really missing it ;)

    And during last month we did it 3 times in a row !

    She didn't tell me why she changed her mind, so I would like to get your opinions.

    Thanks,

    PS : I just posted some pictures of our sessions.
     
  2. D_Garmanswait Glassnads

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    That's really good news! Why not ask her though? By the way your pictures are very nice, I understand why you missed it so much with her bum always being around you.

    Maybe she's been experimenting by herself and learnt that she liked it or was willing to allow it without experiencing that much discomfort. Maybe she came across some porn she liked and wanted to try it out.
     
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    Maybe she was talking with a friend who enjoys it and convinced her to give it a try. Whatever the reason, congrats!
     
  4. Heather LouAnna

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    Ask her, not us. We have no idea. Everyone's different.
     
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    my wife likes anal sex . i started out licking it and putting afinger know i have to lick it to have sex
     
  6. Tonkatoy

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    Wow, excellent pics...best I have seen on here.

    Does your partner know you have posted them on here...if so, please thank her from me!:smile:
     
  7. Principessa

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    Why does it matter, why she changed her mind? You are both enjoying each other fully now correct? I suppose if you really want to know you could...ASK HER! :tongue: :tongue: :tongue:
     
  8. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    Maybe curiousity got the better of her, Maybe a friend convinced her to try it, Maybe she saw enough of it in porn to want to try it, Maybe she finally thinks she can trust you and feels close enough to you to let you do it to her.

    The possibilities are infinate... but she is a smart lady, once you so try it it is something you learn to love quickly
     
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    People change their minds all the time, if she'd suddenly decided to try a food she had previously not fancied it'd be no different. Our tastes change and develop, what I wanted sexually at 21 is vastly different from what I want now.
     
  10. transformer_99

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    I guess I'm happy for both of you ? :confused:
     
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    my guess is because she wanted you to be happy
     
  12. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    j'adore vos pics french homme!

    On 31st of March I'm hopefully going to give anal to a girl :biggrin1:
    Which will be my first time. I might even video it and it.

    Maybe she was curious and just wanted to try it. Did you stretch her out first (fingers/dildo) etc or just put your "sex" in her?
     
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    Sure, I asked her, butshe hasn't been able (or didn't want) to answer me !
     
  14. D_Harry_S_Taint

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    Yes she knows, and she even made fun of me when she learned I'm a member of a "Large Penis Support Group". I'll forward thanks
     
  15. rawbone8

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    Are you an exclusive couple? Does she see other lovers?

    Maybe she had a unpleasant, painful experience earlier in life and formed that opinion against it. Consequently perhaps, she encountered another lover and got some actual pleasure with the experience.

    Or perhaps she has been exposed to some erotica or pornography that moved her profoundly in ways that she did not expect.

    Now you may be the beneficiary and she has expanded her sexual repertoire with you. Plausible?

    BTW I agree about the great pics. Were they taken by a professional photographer? I recall seeing them before within the past several years at Chatropolis. And it seems you had a website gallery at some point in France, didn't you? Is it still up?
     
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