invisibleman
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I'm conflicted about the sex. If I didn't feel this way about her, I would be gone. It's not something I can do without in a relationship. We've fooled around, but that's it (I'll just say she gets very, tangibly, aroused. Her restraint is also tangible.). For personal reasons I don't want to elaborate on, I cannot marry her, but I want to be with her. I want to make love to her. I guess there's not much point to this post. I don't see what can be said. Maybe I just needed to vent.
Well, you should be honest with her how you feel. Don't marry THAT gurl. (AND DEFINATELY DO NOT "MAKE LOVE" TO HER because you don't LOVE her in that MARRY love way.) And you probably should get over the notion of wanting to be with her because you don't want to marry her. That is the honest thing that you can do.