She doesnt feel much when i eat her out?

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  1. fak_et

    fak_et New Member

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    I asked my girl the other day about what she thinks of our various sex acts. She told me she doesnt get much out of being eaten out and i believe her. She doesn't respond much to anything i do with my tongue. I posted a while ago and ive tried everything, making the alphabet with my tongue, concentrating on the clit, putting my tongue inside, blowing, kissing, vibrating, etc.

    On the other hand,i can blow her mind relatively easy when fingering her.

    Any advice for me?
     
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    B_Think_Kink New Member

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    Use what works and focus on fingering her instead. Maybe use oral and manual at the same time hun. Do what works for both of you :)
     
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    do not blow into the pussy...it can cause air emolisms.

    slow down and concentrate on how good it tastes,
    and how much you would fiend for it
    if you never got it,it is the flower of life,suck it with all your heart
    not your tongue,she can tell if you are using your tongue or
    your heart.

    i am not sure if this even pertains to your situation,
    but it is what advice i had on oral.
    haha
    :tongue:
     
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    First question...but why are your doing oral sex on her if she does not get anything out of it?

    Stick to what works...and maybe someday...she will learn to enjoy having oral sex performed on her. Then...you focus on that.

    Hope this helps...


    biz
    :hump:
     
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    Probe DEEPER

    (none of this Surface Stuff-if you have to use other devices - do so ..
    i can feel her Reaction already')

    enz
     
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    Usually direct clitoral stimulation should feel good for her. Try that with your moist finger along with maybe fingering her vagina. If you can do it with your finger then you can potentially do it better with your tongue. But the key to her having feeling in her clit is to use lots of foreplay and touching & sucking of her breasts.

    But it could be she is just uncomfortable with having your face there. A lot of women are like this.

    Also, I always say if you want to learn how to touch girl's pussies, then watch lesbian porn. They are more gentle than straight porn.
     
  7. psidom

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    sooo true,and also sad.
    ladies...we LOVE it and there is nothing gross about it.
    we know what goes on down there,all the "stuff" that you are
    grossed out by...turn alot of us on.

    me especially. ;)
     
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    Depends entirely on the woman. If she's willing, after kissing and fondling I usually work my fingers slowly up her inner thigh and stroke her pussy gently, then gradually move down, flick my tongue lightly over the clit area, then build up the licking and sucking, often inserting a finger in her pussy at the same time. Some women come quite quickly, others take a while, a few don't come at all so I then use my cock. If you try to rush it, in most cases it doesn't work.
     
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    On the reverse side I can't feel my wife sucking me off most of the time. If I have my eyes closed it feels no different if she is jacking me off or sucking me if my dick is wet with saliva. I have started restoring my foreskin because of this. Now sometimes my wife is not a sensititive and me going down on her is pointless.

    Is she shaved? Mine did that for me long ago and she had reduced sensation. Hope this helps. She also may have it in her mind that you are only doing for her. If you show her how much you enjoy it you may get a better response. Smell her panties in front of her or ask her to leave you a pair. Then tell her how great she taste and smells and how much it gets you off.

    Hope it helps.
     
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    Try adding finger stimulation at the same time. Massage her g-spot with 2 fingers while you are licking her clit. That double stimulation sends my wife off.
     
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    One more suggestion....

    Rather than use your mouth try using your fingers. Keep them really wet and lubed and try rubbing her clit and the area around it. (Remember, many women don't get off on heavy duty, direct clit manipulation.) Rather than the tip of your finger, let the side of it press against it. Vary your strokes and pressure. Do this until you know what sets her off and presses her buttons (so to speak). Once you and she know what works, you can try doing the same motions with your tounge.

    Practice until you et it right.
     
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    I don't know if you can understand this, but this is the best advice, IMO. Let her know how much you love it. Treat her nectar like precious ambrosia.

    I can hardly feel it when I am getting my cock sucked, its 90% mental for me. A good blowjob is not which direction they twirl their tongue, and rhythm of strokes, its the look in their eyes, and the moans of pleasure.
     
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    Good point.... though do try to stay away from the ones with the long fingernails... they're not so good. LOL.

    Also, some women have more flesh around their girl parts. Make sure that you experiment with gently lifting/holding that out of the way when you are concentrating on her clit (see lesbian porn for examples).

    I will again say that Violet Blue's Book "The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus" is pretty good, too.
     
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    Whoa! I've noticed that.... that area is where the vibrator is held steady. But i never put two and two together.
     
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    i have a similar problem. all the women i've known haven't been able to feel anything when i had my dick in them.
     
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    Used some techniques from the video a couple days ago and didnt get the results i wanted. Then i tried the same thing again the next day and got my girl to orgasm from my tongue alone! I pretty much licked the clit with more pressure and slower, instead of just moving it all over the place.

    It was rewarding, took about 5-10 mins, she couldnt sit still at all, kicking, grabbing at stuff, bending every which direction, then she just started giggling uncontrollably.
     
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    a wonderful refresher course...they should show this is school...would save on marriage counceling
     
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