She likes intercourse better than oral sex????!!

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my girlfriend likes it when i give her oral sex but she seems to like straight up sex better though. she says it gets her off more?? is this a common thing or what because most girls i know would rather have the tounge any day of the week lol
 

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When i was married and had totally fallen out of love or lust with my husband but hadn't got to the point where I could tell him how I felt, whenever we had sex he would try to go down on me but I would pretend that I just wanted him to fuck me (because I wanted it over and done with as soon as possible, the sex was so boring).

Not saying this is what is happening with you, but it does happen!
 

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Not sure if it is a common thing, but I can orgasm from penetration and *looooove* to feel him cum inside me, so I do prefer sex over oral. However, I think you should ask her why she likes it so much. If she can list a few reasons why, then let it go.

If she can't, there may be an issue with her comfort level with oral (why I didn't like it early on), your technique (experiment until you find what she likes, not how you like to do it*), or, as Denise mentioned, an issue in your relationship.


*Anyone who licked me early on usually did it the standard “I learned this from porn”, "lick, lick lick and stick it in" way, which never worked for me. After some experimentation, I figured out that I prefer long licks starting with a nibble and suck of the perineum, moving slowly up, soft licking of my urethral opening :eek:, and ending on my clit. It is the reverse of what you see in porn, or what most try, but it drives me *crazy*. :yup:
 

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sounds like incompatibility to me. There are men that dont like to go down and love ot fuck. Switch her off for someone who fits your tastes better.
 
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My experience is that some women need very different oral sex techniques; indeed some women are radically different to the majority. I've had some lovers who were very, very sensitive, and needed a very light and fleeting touch or else it was just terrible for them. I've had some lovers who were the opposite, and needed me to really get stuck into it to get any satisfaction. The majority preferred an average sort of touch.

So rather than the prophets of doom, perhaps you are doing it wrong for your current girlfriend compared to previous lovers. The way I did it was read my partners body language, and let her guide me to where she wanted me to go.
 

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I prefer penetration too. That's why I'm straight and not bi. :biggrin1:


** No offense to people who ARE bi, it's just not for me. I have nothing against people who are, though...
 

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I like penetration better too but I dont think people who like oral are bi. My best friend thinks Im crazy cuz I dont really love it and shes def. not bi. I just think its how youre built or something.

I prefer penetration too. That's why I'm straight and not bi. :biggrin1:


** No offense to people who ARE bi, it's just not for me. I have nothing against people who are, though...
 

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my gf prefers sex to anything. She'll pull my hand away before she cums everytime since she wants to have sex. Which sometimes gets annoying since I'll put in a good 10 minutes of work and the she stops her orgasm on purpose. But when I do make her cum, she still wants to have sex and we do. I guess she's just afraid that if she cums, she'll lose it, like a guy or something.
 

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i know a lot of woman who would rather have intercourse. lots of them prefer to just be eaten a bit as foreplay than switch to intercourse. i know im not a woman but i prefer intercourse to oral any day of the week.
 

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Oral is much more personal and requires a bit more intimacy than just inserting and drilling... some people have intimacy issues.

I want to fucking laugh my head off but am mostly disturbed by two women in this thread that equate heterosexual oral sex with bi-sexuality. There is absolutely NOOOOOOO correlation.

Oral sex has nothing at all to do with heterosexuality or homosexuality.

I can most likely safely say that women who don't like oral have some serious
"issues"... or like Denise said, "They just aren't that into you."

When I think about pussy... I think about eating pussy, they are synonymous in my mind.
 

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I like penetration better too but I dont think people who like oral are bi. My best friend thinks Im crazy cuz I dont really love it and shes def. not bi. I just think its how youre built or something.

I didn't mean that people who prefer/like oral are necessarily bi. I meant that if I preferred oral, I would be bi, since I'm about the person not the gender and tongues are tongues, after all. :biggrin1: (Although I also do prefer the LOOKS of male anatomy over female anatomy, by a wide, wide margin...)
 

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Oral is much more personal and requires a bit more intimacy than just inserting and drilling... some people have intimacy issues.

I want to fucking laugh my head off but am mostly disturbed by two women in this thread that equate heterosexual oral sex with bi-sexuality. There is absolutely NOOOOOOO correlation.

Oral sex has nothing at all to do with heterosexuality or homosexuality.

I can most likely safely say that women who don't like oral have some serious
"issues"... or like Denise said, "They just aren't that into you."

When I think about pussy... I think about eating pussy, they are synonymous in my mind.

Like I was saying, I don't equate liking oral with being bi, more that I personally would be bi if I preferred oral over penetration, since I'm a "biology is not destiny" person when it comes to psychological things, but I do prefer male anatomy overall, too...

And actually, I have nothing against oral myself, just that I prefer penetration.