She wants Spice!

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_ytcorp, Oct 11, 2009.

  1. B_ytcorp

    B_ytcorp New Member

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    alright,so... getting right to it;
    I guess things have gotten a little bland sexually with my partner and I. I've only really had practice "making love" with a woman and need some hints and tips to turn things up a notch.
    What do I need to do to turn things from "romantic love making" into a good night of "fucking"?

    A few things
    -she doesn't like being asked what she likes
    -likes me to take initiative
    -very intelligent and decisive
     
  2. curiouslady

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    OK- so "she doesn't like to be asked what she likes" - Well, unless you are a mind reader you need to at least get her to give you some "guidelines" - have you tried watching porn together? I have found that it is easier for me to say "hmmm- that looks interesting" to my partner, rather than "I want you to do xxxxxx." I'm shy, so porn watching helps in me being able to share my wants and needs.

    Not sure if that helps you (?)

    Good Luck!!
     
  3. B_ytcorp

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    well the two of us are working on communication because she has a hard time expressing wants and needs at times (don't get me wrong I have faults too)
    but being as she's a bit of a traditional girl she would be reluctant to take that route, though I do think that would be an otherwise great idea
     
  4. voidout

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    sounds to me like she wants you to be more aggressive and dominant. try being a little more rough. not crazy, but see how she likes you being more aggressive sexually, and go from there.
     
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    I'm thinking very much along the same lines, that things need to be a bit more aggressive and dominant, but how do I go about it. I know its all junior league to ask but any help is appreciated.
     
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    Fuck your girlfriend for being an immature bitch who can't even look a man in the eye and tell him she wants him to fuck her in the ass hole... Or whatever the bitch wants.
     
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    I'd say a trip to Arrakis is in your future.
     
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    Say's Duncan Idaho.

    P.S.
    You got some melange you can spare a brother?
     
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    A blend of Hungarian paprika and cayenne pepper sounds in order
     
  10. dolfette

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    if she has to tell you to be forceful then it defeats the object.

    grab her, look hungry, kiss her hard.
    drag her to the bed/sofa/table and fuck her like you're a starving man and she's a banquet. be forceful. move her where you want her. pin her wrists and whisper, in obscene detail, all the dirty things you like about her and ant to do to her.

    or tie her up. blindfold. with her legs spread wide. not knowing what's going to happen. lick her, kiss her, touch her all over. use fingers, toys and tongue. pinch gently...if she likes it, pinch harder. slap gently...if she likes it, slap harder. bite gently...if she likes it, bite harder. tease her, give her almost what she wants, but pull back and leave her wanting more. and then, only when she begs for it, fuck her.
     
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    I second this motion.
     
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    Have you been watching me fuck women or are you just in my mind taunting me by giving away all the right answers that I've kept sekrat for so long?
     
  13. dolfette

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    i'm psychic. it's spoooooky.
     
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    Exactly what I was going to say. Though it didn't give me a hard on when I thought it. :eek:
     
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    Why not just have a threesome? Saves all this brainstorming nonsense.
     
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    I love it, thanks Dolfette
     
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    I think you should get a little rough with her. Some women like to have their hair pulled and botty smacks or their arms restrained to give a feeling of helplessness. Dirty talk can also be a big turn on. Start off slowly with your new ideas and watch to see how she responds. If she shows you that she is enjoying it, step things up a little.
     
  18. B_ytcorp

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    so, a little follow up, I happened to run into a close friend and had a talk with her last night. she was shocked to hear that I was "boring", a little run in we'd had a year or so back had left her pleased. With a little deliberation and running with a few of the suggestions here we came to the conclusion that I've just been overly cautious in relationships. I'm a thinker and that apparently seemed to be getting the best of me. This girl and I had "hooked-up" and it was a blast, I guess I just wasn't going with it the same way with my girl.
    So, this afternoon I had my gf over between classes, threw her 'round a bit and left quite a positive impression and an obvious grin on the both of our faces.
     
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    Mind coming over to my place and showing me exactly what you did?
     
  20. voidout

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    oh baby oh baby.

    glad it worked out well, then. :)
     
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