Hi,
So I met this girl and we went out on two dates so far. I will be seeing her again tomorrow for a third one.
On the first date I held her hand and told her i was interested in her. She was giggling saying it was unexpected - I had a good vibe.
On the second date I asked her how she felt about me - and she said she thought I was a good guy but wanted to take it slow. I told her I want to make sure we are more than friends.
She told me that she had a bad experience with her previous bf (I knew him somewhat - not very well. he, she and I were in a same class in university once).
She wants to take it slow, I don't. I will respect her wishes but I don't want this to go too slow. When is the right time to make the move? When to kiss her, and when to ask her to be my gf?
I know it depends on the cues and circumstances but I feel like beyond the third date it would be getting a bit late.. no?
So I met this girl and we went out on two dates so far. I will be seeing her again tomorrow for a third one.
On the first date I held her hand and told her i was interested in her. She was giggling saying it was unexpected - I had a good vibe.
On the second date I asked her how she felt about me - and she said she thought I was a good guy but wanted to take it slow. I told her I want to make sure we are more than friends.
She told me that she had a bad experience with her previous bf (I knew him somewhat - not very well. he, she and I were in a same class in university once).
She wants to take it slow, I don't. I will respect her wishes but I don't want this to go too slow. When is the right time to make the move? When to kiss her, and when to ask her to be my gf?
I know it depends on the cues and circumstances but I feel like beyond the third date it would be getting a bit late.. no?