She wasn't impressed!!!!
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I think you should focus on the moment, not the compliment. If it comes great but if not...eh. I have gotten that from a good number of the people who have seen mine in person but from those whom I didn't get it, I still had a great time 
Anyone bashing me for looking for a positive comment during that time and actually has ANY pics posted on their profile is a hypocrite. Let's be real here. What's the purpose of showing your private parts to complete strangers? You want to be told how big your cock is and how great your ass or breast looks. How am I any different? You all like being complimented just as much as I do. Yeah, I probably could have used more tact during that situation, but some people are going on like I shouldn't seek any approve from any woman regarding my penis, yet their profiles are littered with pics of theirs. I didn't start this thread asking "what do you think of my cock," I simply asked if anyone had a similar experience. But maybe in doing so, I exposed something you guys were hoping nobody would talk about: that we all have egos that like to be stroked. And really, what's wrong with that?
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Has anyone considered that maybe some women just do not care about how big their partners penis is and maybe they are attracted to them for another reason or would that be too logical.
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The OP put himself out there and asked for reactions. Because people gave honest opinions he probably wasn't hoping for, rather than kiss his ass and feed his fragile phallic-centered ego, that makes us unpleasant?
Then maybe he needs to grow up.
^ What he said.
I never asked for a reaction. I never asked for anyone to rate my cock or my performance. I asked if anyone else had a similar experience. If you're going to champion the trashing of my thread, at least thoroughly read it before doing so buddy.
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No pics never will have. Not looking for comments positive or negative. Your post was vain and people don't like that. The point that is being made to you that you seem to be missing is that if you actually had the balls to ask that you are too self centered and need to stop it.
Nowhere in your post did you say anything about whether or not she came. You said you fucked her in many ways. Did she scream, moan, say oh yeah right there. That is much more important than the size of your dick. It seems like she just lay there waiting for you to finish based on what you posted.
My ego gets stroked when the girl I sleep with says that was great I came so many times. That means I did it right and it was based on my talents and desires to please her, not what god gave me.
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- dylz,
yes, we like compliments just like you do. yes, they make us feel slightly warm and fuzzy inside just like you do. but no, we dont expect peoples jaws to drop to the floor as soon as we whip out our dicks or take our shirts off, and we dont feel disappointed, bitter, or devalued if we dont elicit that response.
so yes, theres a difference, and a major one at that.
Very witty. We all look for some type of approval from anyone we're dealing with and get satisfaction from it. When you go out with your mate and he or she tells you you look good, that doesn't make you feel great? Why is there a difference if I wanted that satisfaction while my clothes were off. It's the same emotion.
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Because unless I am going somewhere, like an interview where it is important, I never ask, which is what you are being taken to task for.
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We're not (for the most part) running around struggling to fish comments to inflate our horribly damaged ego.
Because you're not just posting pics and letting the pieces (comments) fall where they may. You're posting a whiny, butt-hurt sob story about the little girl that didn't drop to her knees and pray before you.
But you did from her.
And that's as shallow as can be in this case.
I'm not trashing your thread at all, I'm just stating my honest opinion, which incidentally happens to coincide with the vast majority of responders. I have thoroughly and carefully read it, including all your feeble attempts to justify yourself and control the discussion. It's clear from the outset that the response you expected was, "Dude, your cock is freaking huge! Forget that bitch. The same thing happened to me. It's her loss. etc., etc." Surprise. When you put yourself out there in a thread, you don't get to control what people say or think, anymore than you control what a woman says or thinks when you have sex with her.
It's really sad that you think sex revolves around your not-so-huge penis, even sadder that your entire ego rests on that. I would suggest developing yourself and finding other things to take pride in. The sooner you grow up and realize that there are other qualities essential to being a man, essential to being a good lover, the happier you'll be.
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I'll accept the shallow label. I have no problem with that. But you and a lot of other people are missing the point. I said the experience happened years ago and that I was humbled by it. But then I also asked in the end if anyone has had a similar experience. I don't understand how this means I'm fishing for compliments. Please explain this to me.
