She Won't Admit She Likes It

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I've been married for 39 years, nothing will change my status, I love her.

My wife will NOT admit she loves my size. I am a grower and if I'm really excited then I'm 8 1/2+ x 6 1/2. She has more intense orgasms when I am as she calls it "full grown". If I'm not real excited then I'm less than 8 by almost 6. She still comes but not near as intense. She can deep throat me "full grown" and takes me balls deep in either hole. We still have sex 3-4 times a week.

She has told me if she hadn't been in love with me before she found out my size that she would have NEVER fucked me. She told her mother how large I am and her mother's comment was not a compliment.

Am I asking too much to want her to like and compliment my size?
 

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Dick's that size are a lot of hard fucking work compared to a large one that is smaller or even an average one. Why can't you just be happy that she gives and receives pleasure? Would you rather that she lied to you?

Lie to me how? That doesn't make sense
 

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Lie to me how? That doesn't make sense
Would you prefer that she lie to you and tell you that she just loves your size? She already told you her truth. She loves you. She enjoys having sex with you. But she would not have bothered putting in the work to get to the point where the sex was enjoyable in the first place, if she had not been in love with you.
 

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Lie to me how? That doesn't make sense

I don't tell my guy I love his big dick. And it is big. But it's not why I love him or our sex life. Telling him it is would be lying.

Edit: I tell him I love his dick. Not because it's big, but because it's him. And inside me, it's us.
 

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I primarily see two men for sex now. There are two others, but I'm on the fence about continuing with one, and only just reuniting with the other. We haven't hooked up since reconnecting, and we might not.

One of the two I'm seeing regularly has almost as much dick as you. His is a bit thinner than yours, but not much. The other is swinging just about dead on average. The bigger erection needs much more foreplay to work out, so there is ALWAYS a much bigger buildup leading to penetration. He loves taking his time, and he loves multiple rounds, but usually only has the stamina for one or two. Then, because I have a long refractory period and usually climax quickly in his mouth, but he wants to feel me bust on his cock, he also stops the action to prevent his own orgasm and long refractory period. It equates to edging me. When he is less erect, it actually feels better overall, but when he is fully erect, my orgasm is stronger at the end.

The one who has the average erection? Yeah we do some foreplay. But we get very quickly into earthy, primal rutting. This goes on for three to five rapid-fire rounds. I climax once or twice; his orgasm marks the end of a round. It is very intense.

Could I declare one as better than the other? No, honestly. It's night and day, apples and oranges, sunrises and sunsets. The experiences are too different to really compare. I have an amazing time with either. I look forward to my time with either. I know I'm going to get off well and hard either way. I know I'm going to be treated well. I'm going to laugh. I'm going to dance with one, and watch a movie with the other. Pleasant company, deeply stimulating conversation, and phenomenal sex either way. I can honestly say I like both men, and I like both erections. The bigger one is worth the effort, and the smaller one is easy.

The only size-related compliment I gave, has been given to both of them. "Ohmyfuckinggawd I love your dick!" One of them has incredibly long fingers. Novelty hands. lol "How can you do that? Fuck, your fingers are long!" Fingers trump peens. Perfect combination of dexterity, firmness, and manageable size. I do have a strong preference for these extra-long fingers.

Maybe your wife is like me, and sees the size of your penis as both pro and con, lots of work, and an excellent payoff, and would never, as a result compliment you on it.
 

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Sweetie, leave it be. It's probably not going to happen.

I'm married to a man of dimensions as well, and I'll tell you as I tell him, sometimes, and it's rarer now, but sometimes it's just a whole lot of effort.

Don't get me wrong, I love him and I like "it," but while I may comment on his size and tease him about it, I'll never gush or compliment him on it for one simple reason: he had nothing to do with it. It's not his accomplishment. He was gifted it.

I will compliment him on passion, technique, and pure pampering, but on his size? Hah, no.

And I'm sure she's just like me: she loves you and likes your size. But why is it necessary to voice it? Do you still have intimacy? If so then she doesn't have a problem with it. Does she like to have intimacy? Then she likes its size because it's part of you.
 

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I’ve been in love with a man with size before, and I loved his penis because it was attached to him. But like your wife, a large size wouldn’t have been my first choice.

Don’t force her to say things that she doesn’t want to say. I’d personally feel like an idiot saying “I love your big dick”, when I don’t. I might say, “I love fucking you” or “I love the way you feel inside me”, but size? Nope. I’m not a size fan. Never have been and never will be. I don’t want to lie to the person I love.
 
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Good grief. Do you wax poetic about her labia, clitoral hood, and pubic hair (assuming she doesn't shave/wax/sugar bare)?

I love my man. I love his dick because it's his dick, attached to his body, and he knows how to wield it. I've loved or greatly enjoyed the company of other people, including ones who had no penis. Their dick size (if they had one) was pretty irrelevant.

Also, the amount of men who pop up on here with the "wahhh, she won't admit _____" is absurd. You're saying you don't believe or trust what the lady/ladies in your life are saying. That's fucking insulting and a you issue, not the women's issue.
 

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I don't tell my guy I love his big dick. And it is big. But it's not why I love him or our sex life. Telling him it is would be lying.

Edit: I tell him I love his dick. Not because it's big, but because it's him. And inside me, it's us.
Agreed 100 percent !
 
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That's fucking insulting and a you issue, not the women's issue.

As a matter of fact I do compliment her on every aspect of her body, I love her and I love her body!! I been married to her 2/3 of my life.

I posted this in the "ask a woman" forum NOT in the women's issues section go get off your high horse.
 

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I'm pretty sure when a dude posts specific wang measurements the information is actually intended for other men on the site. AaW or WI are a safe way of letting interested men know "hey, what up, I got a big cock"

Cuz I've never seen a woman be "oh, welcome to the site you big, beautiful weenie having bastard. Please tell me all about your penis"

Now from dudes? That shit is almost verbatim.

:rolleyes::cool:
 
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As a matter of fact I do compliment her on every aspect of her body, I love her and I love her body!! I been married to her 2/3 of my life.

I posted this in the "ask a woman" forum NOT in the women's issues section go get off your high horse.

My personality and bluntness doesn't change between the two sections, or online versus offline. Your lack of belief/trust in your wife, from your own admission/words has nothing to do with my ego.